"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Double booked myself kind of sort of

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So there's a big dinner party tommorow night, there's this girl that I'm kind of hollaring at and she said she couldn't make it, although she was never going as my date to begin with, she'd be comming with her friends if she did come - cool, so I ask girl 2 who I've been dating on and off to go with me, girl 2 accepts. Turns out the first girl is comming now..

what to do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Go to the party - have fun. Girl number one rejected your offer to go with you right? So whats the problem?
 
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well, girl 1 never rejected my offer - I just heard through the grapevine that she wasn't going to make it. However, after hearing that I was going - she gamed up and decided to come. I just don't see this ending well.
 
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