"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Double booked myself kind of sort of

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So there's a big dinner party tommorow night, there's this girl that I'm kind of hollaring at and she said she couldn't make it, although she was never going as my date to begin with, she'd be comming with her friends if she did come - cool, so I ask girl 2 who I've been dating on and off to go with me, girl 2 accepts. Turns out the first girl is comming now..

what to do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go to the party - have fun. Girl number one rejected your offer to go with you right? So whats the problem?
 

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well, girl 1 never rejected my offer - I just heard through the grapevine that she wasn't going to make it. However, after hearing that I was going - she gamed up and decided to come. I just don't see this ending well.
 
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