"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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double/blind date?

king0fhearts59

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whats up guys havent posted in a while. Anyway I have a double date tonight the situation is my friend knows both of the girls and his "piece" had a friend she wanted one of his friends to meet (me). Sooo basically this is my first time on a blind/double date (iif thats what you'd call it) and with that said I'd just like to know some tips on getting the girl that I'm meeting to be on my magic stick from the get-go haha. let me know please the date is tonight so this is URGENT
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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