"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do's and Dont's of Physical signs...

grifter

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OK here's the deal:

There is this girl in school who is gorgeous. absolutely beautiful, and i havent felt this way for anyone in a long time... she is good lookin, so i know how i have to play her (tease her/be playful), she has flirted wit me, givin me signs of touching, and sitting near me, but i always ignored her. But since i havent really had a long 1 on 1 conversation with her, she probably doesnt know that i find her really attractive.

Good thing is that she is popular in school, but quiet in class, and i was gonna make my move on her today, but she was talkin wit one of her girlfriends and i didnt want to be RUDE.

I want to get her, but should i ignore her, or flirt a little bit and be nice...? tell her about her eyes and stuff?

now my real question is this: Besides the obvious, eyecontact, use left hand, touch her knees with mine, and head tilt, what other important physical signs should i do to get her?

dont give me a link cuz i prolly read dem all. just tell me waht u would do...

What should i do when she is talkin with other people? She real pretty, and although she flirts with me, she does that a lot of other guys too so i aint thinkin i am soo special. know what i mean?

and last but not least:
everyone answer this question:

What are the Do's of flirting (hot girls only)?

Don't tell her how pretty she is... but what else to discuss?

What are the Don'ts of flirting?

dont tell her how good she looks and stuff? but i still want her to know that i am interested... :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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dont give me a link cuz i prolly read dem all. just tell me waht u would do...
Would you have posted this if your statement were true?
 

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Originally posted by grifter
dont give me a link cuz i prolly read dem all. just tell me waht u would do...

What should i do when she is talkin with other people? She real pretty, and although she flirts with me, she does that a lot of other guys too so i aint thinkin i am soo special. know what i mean?

No, you are her special little star.

and last but not least:
everyone answer this question:

What are the Do's of flirting (hot girls only)?

Well for HOT GIRLS ONLY, I usually start grabbing for the boobies.

Don't tell her how pretty she is... but what else to discuss?

Talk about how fat and flabby her boobies are.

What are the Don'ts of flirting?

Don't act all confident, don't act like a man, don't disagree.

dont tell her how good she looks and stuff? but i still want her to know that i am interested... :)

Oh believe me, you'll know she's interested when she's filing a sexual harassment suit.
Have a nice day. :cool:
 
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