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Dorm Room Dilemma...this one girl

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Hey guys, I am living in the coed dorms in a preety large college in New York. Well i've been doing preety well in the first few weeks with girls, just being overall more aggressive and it's really working out preety well.
But then there's this one chick on my floor, one of the hottest girls on campus, literally a 9.5 and says she's single on facebook... This girl lives literally 5 doors down from me, sounds like a good setup eh? I CANNOT get a convo going with this girl, the only time i've ever even seen her were like fleating glances getting on and off the elevator and i dropped a quick "Hey". For some reason all the other ugly chicks on this floor i somehow always see in the hallway, or they stop by the room to say hi or something. This girl i haven't met once, she's always in the room with the door closed and is very elusive. I think it's too late (2 weeks into semester), to just knock on the door and introduce myself. Another option would be to just randomly IM her cause i have her SN, but i feel like i should just let it happen naturally as to not come off as to eager to meet her or anything.. My roomate met her the first day when he was wasted and somehow got in a huge argument with her, so i was thinking maybe just IM'ing her pretending to be mediating between her and my roomate just as an excuse to even start talking to this girl..
You guys think i should do any of this stuff, or just let it happen naturally cause chances are i'm eventually gonna catch her on the elevator, or see her at a party or something, but then again this girl is HOT, and single, and this will not last long.... What you guys think?
 

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Nothing but a confident approach is going to work with this chick. She's hot, so she's definitely used to getting attention. Don't try any lame tactics like IMing her stuff, when you see her act like she's just another girl and chat her up. A non-chalant attitude would be best in my opinion.
 

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I don't know sht but I do know that IMing her is a bad idea.
 

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Originally posted by Heavy
Hey guys, I am living in the coed dorms in a preety large college in New York. Well i've been doing preety well in the first few weeks with girls, just being overall more aggressive and it's really working out preety well.
But then there's this one chick on my floor, one of the hottest girls on campus, literally a 9.5 and says she's single on facebook... This girl lives literally 5 doors down from me, sounds like a good setup eh? I CANNOT get a convo going with this girl, the only time i've ever even seen her were like fleating glances getting on and off the elevator and i dropped a quick "Hey". For some reason all the other ugly chicks on this floor i somehow always see in the hallway, or they stop by the room to say hi or something. This girl i haven't met once, she's always in the room with the door closed and is very elusive. I think it's too late (2 weeks into semester), to just knock on the door and introduce myself. Another option would be to just randomly IM her cause i have her SN, but i feel like i should just let it happen naturally as to not come off as to eager to meet her or anything.. My roomate met her the first day when he was wasted and somehow got in a huge argument with her, so i was thinking maybe just IM'ing her pretending to be mediating between her and my roomate just as an excuse to even start talking to this girl..
You guys think i should do any of this stuff, or just let it happen naturally cause chances are i'm eventually gonna catch her on the elevator, or see her at a party or something, but then again this girl is HOT, and single, and this will not last long.... What you guys think?
Don't IM her if you do chances are you will get rejected pretty much right away. If she's single now it is likely she will stay single because she's one of those girls that just likes to fu*k you know the party girls. She probably doesn't want a BF because she thinks a BF would hold her back from partying and fu*king.

This is great news for you because if im right she is perfect fu*k buddy material.

The reason you never see her but always see the ugly girls is because the hot girl has a lot of friends and she is always busy. So it would be good if you kind of have a stake out and wait till she leaves her room. When she does then you POUNCE and Mack her pants off.

College will be allot more fun if you have her as a fu*k buddy. You will be fu*king the hottest girl there and then other girls will want to fu*k you. So don't delay Mack this girl ASAP.

Ninja out
 

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Re: Re: Dorm Room Dilemma...this one girl

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Don't IM her if you do chances are you will get rejected pretty much right away. If she's single now it is likely she will stay single because she's one of those girls that just likes to fu*k you know the party girls. She probably doesn't want a BF because she thinks a BF would hold her back from partying and fu*king.

This is great news for you because if im right she is perfect fu*k buddy material.

The reason you never see her but always see the ugly girls is because the hot girl has a lot of friends and she is always busy. So it would be good if you kind of have a stake out and wait till she leaves her room. When she does then you POUNCE and Mack her pants off.

College will be allot more fun if you have her as a fu*k buddy. You will be fu*king the hottest girl there and then other girls will want to fu*k you. So don't delay Mack this girl ASAP.

Ninja out
to be honest, alot of people have these false fantasies in their head about hot girls being more innocent than they are, but from what i've heard this girl is from a preety small town and is preety innocent, she's a freshman and new here and I don't think she's that popular yet really.
 

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hahahaha don't let appearances or what you hear fool you. Get her alone in a private place, then and only then you can decide if she’s a small-town virgin or a party girl/slut.

Do what I said just wait till you see her don't IM her. Find out where she goes what parties she goes to ect and the make you’re move. I may be wrong she could be GF material than you might get her as a GF but you never know.

Ninja out
 

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Re: Re: Re: Dorm Room Dilemma...this one girl

Originally posted by Heavy
to be honest, alot of people have these false fantasies in their head about hot girls being more innocent than they are, but from what i've heard this girl is from a preety small town and is preety innocent, she's a freshman and new here and I don't think she's that popular yet really.

I'm counting how many times you type "preety". If you're going to use a word that frequently, learn to spell it correctly.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Dorm Room Dilemma...this one girl

Originally posted by jprjrjr
I'm counting how many times you type "preety". If you're going to use a word that frequently, learn to spell it correctly.
lol, funny for you to comment on my spelling when you spelled "If" wrong bro.
 

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From my personal experiences, do not, I repeat do not mess around with the girls on your dorm floor, I learned the hard way my freshman year of college. My freshman year I got mixed up with this broad that lived two doors down from me, I should of just keep it friendly but I tired to forge it on. In essence the story/conflict went like this; I ended up seeing her everyday for a whole year (even after the conflict and fights that brewed up between us.) We really couldn't keep much private, well cause all of our buisness was right there for everyone to see (your in a dorm room full of college students who have nothing better to do.) Things where hot and cold (I guess cause I saw the ***** every damn day.) One week I would get tired/disintrested in seeing her and she would play flirtly puppy dog and the following week vice-versa. At the end of that year and all of its craziness I learned a lot in dealing with people, relationships (something I don't want), and sexual tension (which is as fun as screwing) but went through one tough as hell learning process. Tust me buddy, all of that can be learned while at the same time being enjoyable, by messing with some broad from the "other" side of campus.
 

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I get the feeling you are biting off more than you can chew at this moment. Getting her right now would do more harm than good, as much as you don't want to hear it. She is clearly attractive enough to make you obsess about her for weeks without you being able to make a move




If you are confident about your game even after reading that, you have a chance. Here's a hint though, there seems to be a formula to getting girls like that...seems like its time to start reading up on the dj bible...remember, she's your motivation.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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