"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dorm Room Choice? (Urgent)

donjuan87

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Having a good place to study is important to me, and I don't want to go to the library every time I want to study.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by donjuan87
Having a good place to study is important to me, and I don't want to go to the library every time I want to study.
There will be study areas or classrooms around that you can study in. Make your room the party headquarters.
 

donjuan87

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Make your room the party headquarters.
I have some problems with this. I the past I have had problems with people stealing or breaking my sh!t.

But on the other hand, I want to be in the middle of the social action during college. If I mark down I want my room to be for studying, do you think that would be the wrong decision?

I send my form in soon, need answers.
 
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