"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dorm Room Choice? (Urgent)

donjuan87

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Having a good place to study is important to me, and I don't want to go to the library every time I want to study.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by donjuan87
Having a good place to study is important to me, and I don't want to go to the library every time I want to study.
There will be study areas or classrooms around that you can study in. Make your room the party headquarters.
 

donjuan87

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Make your room the party headquarters.
I have some problems with this. I the past I have had problems with people stealing or breaking my sh!t.

But on the other hand, I want to be in the middle of the social action during college. If I mark down I want my room to be for studying, do you think that would be the wrong decision?

I send my form in soon, need answers.
 
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