Dopamine Spikes

[Black Widow Void]

Before going further, I realize that there will be some members that 'claim' this has never happened to them. Okay, sure. What ever. I'll save you the time from offering nothing productive and build you up by saying "you are the man" or something else uplifting.

Anyway... back to the topic of "dopamine spikes." This is when you are typically calm and cool with women, but you run into a specific type of female that for some reason (not something she says, but simply her presence) leaves you losing your 'balance.'

This hasn't personally happened in over a year, but it has happened a few times. When that dopamine spiked up, I found myself losing composure. In fact, I left thinking to myself... "I can't believe I lost it. If I was a single gal, I wouldn't have gone for me either."

Although, overall, I'm confident that I've done quite well with women, we all make mistakes and this infrequent incident is mine to own.
Some members here are into vitamins and nutrition. I was wondering if a certain diet can be used to regulate an unwelcomed dopamine spike? If this was mere anxiousness, I would just imagine that she takes big dumps or something (said with humor).

Just curious if anyone has found a way to reduce the unwelcomed dopamine. This feeling reminds me of back when I used to smoke pot. It's not a bad feeling, but we aren't in full conscious control of ourselves and I don't like that.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Read, the younger thinner you diet by Dr E braverman. Thank you rsd Tyler.

You can spike AcH, serotonin, Gaba, dopamine etc by adding HERBS AND SPICES to your diet.

Meditate, yoga, stretch, lift, diet etc.

You're likely slipping out of state and the dip in dopamine is likely from more attractive woman than you've had.

When you see a beautiful woman, know there's some bloke who's sick of shagging her. SRS

 

[Black Widow Void]

Thanks for the tips. I'll look into these.

This is the weird part. I do just fine with interacting with avg girls to 'hotties' (considered by typical mainstream opinion). It only occurs with the rare (and by rare, I mean every few years) type of gal that is a "beauty" ("beauty" by my *own* personal standard). Similar to your theory, perhaps I view them as a scarcity and more 'valuable' (which I know isn't a good place to be).
Thanks again for the reply.

 

[Julian]

Congratulations. ur not gay. Your welcome.


in all reality this is a normal reaction to seeing beauty that stimulates. this is the feeling of LIFE my friend. Dont run away from it. Dont let the different feeling put you off. Thats Gods way of giving you a push into something uncomfortable that you should go for. dont run away from it. EMBRACE IT. and most of all TAKE ACTION.

u got low vibes right now dude. that fact u need to imaginea beautiful girl "taking a dump" like ur some kind of omega perverted incel because she intimidates you and makes you feel inadequate. fk all that. dont self sabotage urself. ur coming from an energy point of negativity because u think something is wrong here and u need herbs an spices to regulate u thru it.

 

[Black Widow Void]

To borrow a stupid cliché.. "this ain't my first rodeo".
Seriously... we *all* get into that state at some point. It's not about being intimated or thinking someone is "out of our league."

I don't believe in "love at first sight" but I do believe that we can be 'stunned at first sight.' Personally, this doesn't happen to me very often, but I'd sure like to avoid it happening in the future.