"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dont's......(some lessons learned in the past month)

WillieSacks

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Don't worry about it
*Mostly for the newbies*

I had some $hit happen to me and it turned me into a little biitch and I NEVER will do that again.

For example if you're just talking to a girl and all of a sudden she stops calling, don't act like a biitch and call back asking WHY she hasn't called you? Let the slide for a few days, try back once more and let it die.


If you're talking to a girl, especially a high quality chick (HB 8 and up) don't give her any lip or get an attitude whth her especially if she hasn't given it up. Like if you tell her to call at 10:30 and she calls at 11:15 and you get an attitude b/c she called so late (just an example),She has so many offers from other guys kissing her ass that she'll drop your ass like that and have you start acting like a biitch.

Don't leave more than 2 messages if the girl hasn't called back.


Don't call everyday trying to hook up. For example calling everyday asking to go over or telling a girl to come over.

Don't pick up everytime a girl calls.

Don't ever make light of the fact that a girl can get laid WHENEVER she wants. She can just wake up in the morning make a call and get laid. Guys actually have to work for the $hit.

Don't be too confident in yourself. You'll be shot back down to reality really fast.

Don't get too caught up (develop feelings for another girl too fast)

If a girl says she'll call back Tuesday and she doesn't call back, don't call her back that day.

Don't ask 'where do we stand' until after you've gotten laid.

Don't call everyday.

Don't get jealous, especially when she isn't your girl.

If you have the bad habit of always answering your cell, leave the phone at your house or in your car sometimes.

Don't feel dissed if you're plan B at the moment, just move on to plan B yourself.

Always have more than one girl you're talking to.



Whenever something happens, always think of the consequences before you react.

Contrary to what some people say, I think this is just one big game, so you have to treat it as such and you have to do what it takes to wind up on top.

Anymore lessons learned??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do not underestemate the power of challenge, even if things are "going well" (are you sure??) between you two.

Do walk away, when the time is right. "This" girl isn't different, I know you will think she's different anyway, but she's not.
 

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Excellent Tip.

crazykid: a dream maker and stealer of Von Neuen sayings
 

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Raw, concise, and to the point: this is what people need most...

Good post! :up:
 

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WillieSacks said:
Don't ever make light of the fact that a girl can get laid WHENEVER she wants. She can just wake up in the morning make a call and get laid. Guys actually have to work for the $hit.
Guys can get laid whenever they want too. Just not necessarily with the girls they WANT. Same can be said for girls.

Don't ask 'where do we stand'
EVER!!

This is the most retarded question ever...do not ask it, do not answer it, and do not entertain it. It is pure, raw insecurity and you need no part of it.

If she never stops asking it or worries about it 24/7, she will always be insecure with you. Dump her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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