"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don't you wish that there are less DJs and more AFCs lol
- Thread starter Harmonix
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
loving
Senior Don Juan
There's like 500,000 hot girls to every 1 DJ so even statistically you got good odds, not to mention abundance mindset is a + anyway
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I came to the realization when I had 14 chicks I needed to meetup, it's almost impossible for me to **** them all especially at the time since I was super busy. Basically there are tons of chicks, and you can NEVER have them all. Every year there are new 18 year olds.
I'm under 21 so I only have a limited amount of venues I can get in...one in particular averages between 8-20 community guys...I still have no problem getting the women I want.
Plus alot of guys who are improving themselves are generally cool guys...
Solomon
Master Don Juan
amoka said:
Basically
every day brother, every day
lol
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.