Don't you just hate...

[tobiashunter]

When you are talking to a girl who has a boyfriend, and she says "I would so be your girlfriend if I wasn't with so-and-so". It's like.. You aren't in the friendzone, but you can't proceed anymore because of Mr. Boyfriend.

I just had this happen TWICE.
One who is a good friend from Highschool (who I haven't seen in 3 years and NOW she is a lingerie/swimsuit model... OMG she is hot..)
And the other is this girl I have known for the past 4 months, and she talks to me nearly every day, comes to my apartment when she wants a place to sleep besides her parents house and when she doesn't wanna see her bf.

Maybe I shouldn't be such a nice guy anymore....


Has any of this happened to ya'll? a great girl, 7-10, says they would love to be with you in a relationship/sexual relationship "if it wasn't for" their boyfriend?

 

[snintel]

Get them questioning their relationship. If she is saying things like that, she must not be having a great relationship. Probably too weak willed to get out of it herself. You can disguise the questions as positive

 

[penkitten]

you want this girl to be yours?
why ?
is she gonna tell other guys she would love to be their gf if she wasnt with you in 6 mo?

aw!!!

if she didnt want her bf, she would kick him to the curb. shes still with him so thats telling me she still wants him too.

this little girl has no clue what she wants, and i think she isnt considering your feelings by telling you this, her bfs feelings by not being honest and that is selfish.