"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dont you hate make-up?

pyros

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Hello,

I was just having a look at some girl's FB profile and there she has some pictures in pyjama and she looks completely different than in regular life.
Lets say in those pictures she looks even a bit ugly, ugly nose, rough face skin, small boobs, thin lips, etc etc etc

BUT, when she dresses to go out on a Friday night she looks like an HB8 really.
I cant understand how some girls change so much with makeup/sexy clothes etc, they look completely different.
They straigthen their hair, using makup their eyes look bigger, their lips lthicker, their skin softer..using some kind of bras their boobs look way bigger...they look thinner, using heels they look taller, its crazy! A mere 6 can turn into a 7.5-8.


They are like witches using some kind of magic.
DOnt you think? It should be illegal. When I go out I look more handsome but I may improve 0.7 points so if Im a 7 I turn into a 7.7 (just dressing nice, saving, smelling excellent etc), but I do not go from 6 to almost 8 like many girls.


Dont you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zinc4

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yes...if i were a woman i would probably be a HB 9 with makeup and such....there are many ugly or unattractive women who can be a HB7 when dolled up....just another way women have it easier...most HB 8s are really 7s and 7s are really 5s and 9s are really 8s and so on...
 

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The whole makeup ( and clothing, bras, shoes etc ) thing has convinced (some) women that they are hotter than they really are! Most women are way spoiled and have some sort of entitlement complex these days. It's quite frustrating. I still want to bang them to hell and back, but fvck if I could put up with most of their bs!
 

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I agree with this. I think most girls are around HB5 level, but with the make up they can go to 7 or 8. The remaining 99% of life, ie around house, on bus, shopping, taking sh1t you wouldn't even notice them

This is especially noticeable here in England. A few days of sunny weather and all of a sudden lots of skimpy dressed hotties appear out of nowhere
 

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I can't remember who coined the phrase but:

'A man's face is his portrait, a woman's her work of art'

I've found however that the girls who are normally very subtle with their makeup are normally the most attractive without it anyway.

It's the girls who plaster the stuff on that aren't that attractive without it, plus it skews a mans perception of them, particularly if he sees them with make-up on most of the time. It's worse yet if you meet a girl when she is wearing make-up, and then further down the line you see her for the first time without it.

And Hyper, don't know if its the same for you, but when all the girls are out in their shorts, do you find that it's the ones with the longer legs that are normally the most attractive? Just something I've noticed, when none of them are wearing heels, leg size seems to be quite an accurate indicator. That or I'm just a legs man haha.

Gunner
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gunner26 I've found however that the girls who are normally very subtle with their makeup are normally the most attractive without it anyway. It's the girls who plaster the stuff on that aren't that attractive without it said:
Spot on mate, nailed it 100%

A woman's make us is essentially a mask. They also have a lot more products and means of making themselves look more attractive than men do

Therefore I'd propose that a naturally handsome or good looking man is MUCH rarer find than a HB9 plastic composed of make up, cosmetics, chems and fake tan
 

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Ha ha ha! Maybe that'll teach you to look deeper than heels and boobs and cosmetics in the first place?!
 

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pyros said:
I cant understand how some girls change so much with makeup/sexy clothes etc, they look completely different.
It's because there's an entire industry devoted to it. Makeup, fake tans, body shaping clothing, like jeans that push their booties up to make them look rounder/less saggy...same thing with padded bras that make their boobs look 2-3 times as big and stiletto shoes that make their legs look longer.
 

Gunner26

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Hyper2010 said:
Therefore I'd propose that a naturally handsome or good looking man is MUCH rarer find than a HB9 plastic composed of make up, cosmetics, chems and fake tan
I'll agree with this yeah. Plus men have the disadvantage of having to put themselves out there and will not necessarily have girls pining over them all the time, unlike the HB9 make-up girl.

Gunner
 

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Most women DO NOT look good with out make-up. A part of it I think is heightened by the the contrast of difference and that is what men are use to seeing when growing up. That is why lately I appreciate the beauty of African American women. They have such nice skin and don't need much make-up or any at all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jus helps to weed out the sl.uts. A real beautiful women will look just as good the morning after.
 
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