"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dont you hate make-up?

pyros

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Hello,

I was just having a look at some girl's FB profile and there she has some pictures in pyjama and she looks completely different than in regular life.
Lets say in those pictures she looks even a bit ugly, ugly nose, rough face skin, small boobs, thin lips, etc etc etc

BUT, when she dresses to go out on a Friday night she looks like an HB8 really.
I cant understand how some girls change so much with makeup/sexy clothes etc, they look completely different.
They straigthen their hair, using makup their eyes look bigger, their lips lthicker, their skin softer..using some kind of bras their boobs look way bigger...they look thinner, using heels they look taller, its crazy! A mere 6 can turn into a 7.5-8.


They are like witches using some kind of magic.
DOnt you think? It should be illegal. When I go out I look more handsome but I may improve 0.7 points so if Im a 7 I turn into a 7.7 (just dressing nice, saving, smelling excellent etc), but I do not go from 6 to almost 8 like many girls.


Dont you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yes...if i were a woman i would probably be a HB 9 with makeup and such....there are many ugly or unattractive women who can be a HB7 when dolled up....just another way women have it easier...most HB 8s are really 7s and 7s are really 5s and 9s are really 8s and so on...
 

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The whole makeup ( and clothing, bras, shoes etc ) thing has convinced (some) women that they are hotter than they really are! Most women are way spoiled and have some sort of entitlement complex these days. It's quite frustrating. I still want to bang them to hell and back, but fvck if I could put up with most of their bs!
 

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I agree with this. I think most girls are around HB5 level, but with the make up they can go to 7 or 8. The remaining 99% of life, ie around house, on bus, shopping, taking sh1t you wouldn't even notice them

This is especially noticeable here in England. A few days of sunny weather and all of a sudden lots of skimpy dressed hotties appear out of nowhere
 

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I can't remember who coined the phrase but:

'A man's face is his portrait, a woman's her work of art'

I've found however that the girls who are normally very subtle with their makeup are normally the most attractive without it anyway.

It's the girls who plaster the stuff on that aren't that attractive without it, plus it skews a mans perception of them, particularly if he sees them with make-up on most of the time. It's worse yet if you meet a girl when she is wearing make-up, and then further down the line you see her for the first time without it.

And Hyper, don't know if its the same for you, but when all the girls are out in their shorts, do you find that it's the ones with the longer legs that are normally the most attractive? Just something I've noticed, when none of them are wearing heels, leg size seems to be quite an accurate indicator. That or I'm just a legs man haha.

Gunner
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gunner26 I've found however that the girls who are normally very subtle with their makeup are normally the most attractive without it anyway. It's the girls who plaster the stuff on that aren't that attractive without it said:
Spot on mate, nailed it 100%

A woman's make us is essentially a mask. They also have a lot more products and means of making themselves look more attractive than men do

Therefore I'd propose that a naturally handsome or good looking man is MUCH rarer find than a HB9 plastic composed of make up, cosmetics, chems and fake tan
 

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Ha ha ha! Maybe that'll teach you to look deeper than heels and boobs and cosmetics in the first place?!
 

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pyros said:
I cant understand how some girls change so much with makeup/sexy clothes etc, they look completely different.
It's because there's an entire industry devoted to it. Makeup, fake tans, body shaping clothing, like jeans that push their booties up to make them look rounder/less saggy...same thing with padded bras that make their boobs look 2-3 times as big and stiletto shoes that make their legs look longer.
 

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Hyper2010 said:
Therefore I'd propose that a naturally handsome or good looking man is MUCH rarer find than a HB9 plastic composed of make up, cosmetics, chems and fake tan
I'll agree with this yeah. Plus men have the disadvantage of having to put themselves out there and will not necessarily have girls pining over them all the time, unlike the HB9 make-up girl.

Gunner
 

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Most women DO NOT look good with out make-up. A part of it I think is heightened by the the contrast of difference and that is what men are use to seeing when growing up. That is why lately I appreciate the beauty of African American women. They have such nice skin and don't need much make-up or any at all.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jus helps to weed out the sl.uts. A real beautiful women will look just as good the morning after.
 
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