"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You work your game on a girl at school and after a few days of building rapport she still doesn't give her number to you?

WHAT THE HELL!!!?

I just wanna get laid! Its not like I'm asking her to let me borrow her g*ddamn lipstick
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
You work your game on a girl at school and after a few days of building rapport she still doesn't give her number to you?

WHAT THE HELL!!!?

I just wanna get laid! Its not like I'm asking her to let me borrow her g*ddamn lipstick
Your school doesn't have a directory of phone #s?
 

Vincent

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Re: Re: don't you hate it when....

Originally posted by wavejams007
Your school doesn't have a directory of phone #s?
You're kidding me right...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Nzo
i bet she gets alot of calls from cool dudes who use the directory:cool:
the directory = my little black book
 

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They key of getting numbers is grabbing them as soon as humanly possble. In your first approach, establish rapport, and develop a mutual interest. Then go for the number-close or set a date. If she's interested in you at all, you'll get a positive response. If she doesn't, then she's just a friend and you don't have to waste the energy to keep working on her.

I've found a wonderful tactic that I use all the time on girls to grab numbers.

After you've created interest, fake a time restraint. Examples:
-"Dammit, my friends are waiting for me."
-"I really have to get back to my buddies"

Then set a venue but say that you're going with your friends. Examples:
-"Hey, Me and my buds are gonna head down to the theater this saturday."
-"Afterschool, I'm going to drive down to *restaurant* to go eat with some friends of mine."

Then tell her that she is welcome to come.
-"You should come with."
-"Let's go together."

Then interject with a number proposal.
-"But we need to make the plans, so gimme your number."
-"Let me have your number, and I'll give you the info."

Then set a time and location to meet:
-"Just meet me back here afterschool. I'll be a bit late, so just wait here."

Disengage the conversation
-"Now, get to class, you!"
-"Now get outta here, I have things to do."
-or- use your original time restraint
-"I gotta get back to my friends, cya."

It's a rathe simple way of grabbing a number. This whole interaction shouldn't take more than 45 seconds or so. I just spread it out to show you guys how each part works. You can tell immediately if she is interested or not, by her choice to give you the number or not.

-Damian
 

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Re: Re: don't you hate it when....

Originally posted by wavejams007
Your school doesn't have a directory of phone #s?
LOL!

"Yeah, you didn't give me your number so I just went ahead and got it and called you up"

Yeah, I'm sure she will love that.
 
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