"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't you hate it when you see guys obviously faking Alpha behaviour?

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Some guys are just obviously really concious of what image they are trying to project, doesn't it kind of annoy you when you see a guy obviously trying to project an alpha image with certain behaviour...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some guys are just obviously really concious of what image they are trying to project, doesn't it kind of annoy you when you see a guy obviously trying to project an alpha image with certain behaviour...
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Yes. They too are often personality disordered and very insecure. It is extremely annoying and I tend to try and disrupt their image just for kicks. I'm not a fan of this "alpha" stuff anyway.
 
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:: stares you down::

i'm going to make sure you look away first.
 
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LOL (But in a delayed, deliberate and controlled way, cos you know, I laugh WHEN I CHOOSE TO.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I may be here tomorrow...I may not....Who knows, I do things by my OWN WAY.
 
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I spread my arms as wide as I can; same with my legs.

I'm taking up a lot of space and have an open body language. My look just screams Alpha.
 
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I would notice you, but my chin is so high all I can see is the ceiling.
 
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I would smile, but you have to earn it first.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sometimes when you see a real Alpha male in the room you will actually sense that he is overly aggressive in some manner, but a lot of times when you get to know him you become friends and you later feel guilty for your first impression. Also, a lot of times your hatred of him is that you are jealous of him (sometimes this guy gets your girl). It's hard, but don't be quick to judge people.

A real Alpha male is someone you want on your side.

But pretending to be Alpha is definitely not Alpha, and there is no such thing as Alpha on a forum. The closest you can come is Moderator.
 
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