"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dont you guys hate people who complain about...

venser

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the hottness of other guys or girls at their school.

Like everyone has a friend who always says "my school has no hot guys/girls" (or some variation).

I remember once i overheard this ugly underclassmen girl talking to a group of ugly underclassmen guys. the guys had just discovered talking to girls and so they were asking her who she thought was hot in the school. Of course she went on about how this school has no hot guys and that everyone was ugly.

Its such a lame excuse for being lame.

It really just irks me cuz its such a blatant lie unless you're homeschooled and your classmates are your siblings or somehting, lol.

thoughts? comments?
am i being unreasonable?
I guess it really doesnt affect me what others do, but something about it is just like "grow up". anyone know where im getting at?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sounds like a crutch for someone too scared to get in there and make things happen to me.

but ive actually not heard that very often
 

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I laugh when people say that, because that's there excuse for not having a girlfriend/boyfriend.
 
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