"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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don't you feel bad for it?!

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Don't you feel bad about dating few girls at the same time? I am dating HB8 and I think she got strong feelings for me, we have made out, kissed alot, almost fvcked.
Recently I met another gorgeous (sp?) girl, HB9. Now we are dating too. I really don't have any romantic feelings for HB8, but I am interested in her only physically (sex).
The problem is, I feel bad for her, cos now I am dating another girl. Of course she doesn't know about HB9. But I think she wants LTR.
So don't you feel bad while dating few girls at the same time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by utax
Don't you feel bad about dating few girls at the same time? I am dating HB8 and I think she got strong feelings for me, we have made out, kissed alot, almost fvcked.
Recently I met another gorgeous (sp?) girl, HB9. Now we are dating too. I really don't have any romantic feelings for HB8, but I am interested in her only physically (sex).
The problem is, I feel bad for her, cos now I am dating another girl. Of course she doesn't know about HB9. But I think she wants LTR.
So don't you feel bad while dating few girls at the same time?
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Your job in life is to be happy. You were not assign a mission statement from God to make a certain woman in life happy. Never worry about another person's feelings more then yours. I dont, so I never feel bad about it. This is not the 1800's so no woman was forced to be with you and can leave whenever she feels like it. Trust me if any of those two chicks are banging someone else they are not feeling sorry because of you.
 
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i guess - you should maybe spend more of your limited time with the one that wants the LTR.. see how things go for a while....
with the other one - hang out with her only sometimes....
 
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Re: Re: don't you feel bad for it?!

Originally posted by Royal Elite
Your job in life is to be happy. You were not assign a mission statement from God to make a certain woman in life happy. Never worry about another person's feelings more then yours. I dont, so I never feel bad about it. This is not the 1800's so no woman was forced to be with you and can leave whenever she feels like it. Trust me if any of those two chicks are banging someone else they are not feeling sorry because of you.
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and someplace somewhere chicks are saying the same thing, its a never ending battle of the sexes let me get a wooha! :rolleyes:
 
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Instead of seeing dating two chicks at the same time as being detrimental or what not. Try to judge them both by their values and future outlook. If one is a better prospect, go for it. The other girl, will she's better to let down or keep her as a friend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think you can date as many girls as you like, as long as you are honest with them about what's going on with you (dating other girls).
 
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Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
I think you can date as many girls as you like, as long as you are honest with them about what's going on with you (dating other girls).
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Standing ovation!!!!
 
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