"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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don't you feel bad for it?!

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Don't you feel bad about dating few girls at the same time? I am dating HB8 and I think she got strong feelings for me, we have made out, kissed alot, almost fvcked.
Recently I met another gorgeous (sp?) girl, HB9. Now we are dating too. I really don't have any romantic feelings for HB8, but I am interested in her only physically (sex).
The problem is, I feel bad for her, cos now I am dating another girl. Of course she doesn't know about HB9. But I think she wants LTR.
So don't you feel bad while dating few girls at the same time?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by utax
Don't you feel bad about dating few girls at the same time? I am dating HB8 and I think she got strong feelings for me, we have made out, kissed alot, almost fvcked.
Recently I met another gorgeous (sp?) girl, HB9. Now we are dating too. I really don't have any romantic feelings for HB8, but I am interested in her only physically (sex).
The problem is, I feel bad for her, cos now I am dating another girl. Of course she doesn't know about HB9. But I think she wants LTR.
So don't you feel bad while dating few girls at the same time?
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Your job in life is to be happy. You were not assign a mission statement from God to make a certain woman in life happy. Never worry about another person's feelings more then yours. I dont, so I never feel bad about it. This is not the 1800's so no woman was forced to be with you and can leave whenever she feels like it. Trust me if any of those two chicks are banging someone else they are not feeling sorry because of you.
 
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i guess - you should maybe spend more of your limited time with the one that wants the LTR.. see how things go for a while....
with the other one - hang out with her only sometimes....
 
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Re: Re: don't you feel bad for it?!

Originally posted by Royal Elite
Your job in life is to be happy. You were not assign a mission statement from God to make a certain woman in life happy. Never worry about another person's feelings more then yours. I dont, so I never feel bad about it. This is not the 1800's so no woman was forced to be with you and can leave whenever she feels like it. Trust me if any of those two chicks are banging someone else they are not feeling sorry because of you.
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and someplace somewhere chicks are saying the same thing, its a never ending battle of the sexes let me get a wooha! :rolleyes:
 
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Instead of seeing dating two chicks at the same time as being detrimental or what not. Try to judge them both by their values and future outlook. If one is a better prospect, go for it. The other girl, will she's better to let down or keep her as a friend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think you can date as many girls as you like, as long as you are honest with them about what's going on with you (dating other girls).
 
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Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
I think you can date as many girls as you like, as long as you are honest with them about what's going on with you (dating other girls).
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Standing ovation!!!!
 
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