"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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don't we wish we all had this luck?!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wyldfire

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I bet they were either fat or ugly...otherwise he probably wouldn't have filed a report.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I bet they were either fat or ugly...otherwise he probably wouldn't have filed a report.
otherwise they wouldn't even need to use a gun and in that case, I bet they probably wouldn't even have wanted the man in question.
 

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Im suprised the guy was able to get a boner at gunpoint. (I don't think I could.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wyldfire

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I forgot about the HIV issue. Yeah...I can see why he would be upset in that respect.

You don't often hear about women raping men. The men and boys who usually get raped are violated by other men. I'm sure it happens sometimes with a woman raping a man, but due to the differences in strength and how humiliating a crime it is for the victim anyway, I imagine it would be even worse for a man in that manner. Most probably wouldn't report it.
 
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