chickenlegs03
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't watch this video
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
chickenlegs03
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now that you've already looked, i was just testing my word 'psychology' on you guys.
and hey, that video is fvcking hilarious!! i couldn't stop laughing...best pick-up video I've seen, ever
and hey, that video is fvcking hilarious!! i couldn't stop laughing...best pick-up video I've seen, ever
ShizamDaMan
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Ok, I haven't watched it. Now what?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
lame....Just like the rest of the comunity......
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
The guy really needs some serious change.
He doesn't look like the weak nerdy type of AFC, and it looks like he somewhat thinks he's a good social person. But when we get to see the "3 minutes scene", he was talking about some totally uninteresting bullsh*t, and the girls' body language was clearly saying "boring, boring, some one help me, please get me out of here", he just kept talking talking and talking. Finally the girl found a way out with a probably fake phone call.
That was hilarious it made me laugh, at the same time it also made me cringe...
I'm sure there are many guys out there who believe they are pretty good at social interactions while actually they just talk a lot, about uninteresting things... And they keep wondering why it doesn't work with women...
He doesn't look like the weak nerdy type of AFC, and it looks like he somewhat thinks he's a good social person. But when we get to see the "3 minutes scene", he was talking about some totally uninteresting bullsh*t, and the girls' body language was clearly saying "boring, boring, some one help me, please get me out of here", he just kept talking talking and talking. Finally the girl found a way out with a probably fake phone call.
That was hilarious it made me laugh, at the same time it also made me cringe...
I'm sure there are many guys out there who believe they are pretty good at social interactions while actually they just talk a lot, about uninteresting things... And they keep wondering why it doesn't work with women...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.