dont want to do anything

[MikeOck]

Are you depressed? Those all sound like traits of depession. Look it up on Google.

I agree. It sounds like you have depression. I've been there, had all the "symptoms" that you described.

yeah but i don't believe in depression, it is not real in my mind, life just has peaks and valleys.

but let's say that i was to accept that i might be depressed...what options does that leave me: medication. and the **** they give you isn't going to help your game if anything it will hurt it all the more, according to what other people who have taken or do take the stuff have told me.

It doesn't really matter if you believe in it or not. My grandfather didn't believe he had lung cancer, he still died from it.

No, medication is not the only answer (though I am not a doctor so do not consider this professional advice, some people do NEED medication for depression). Please do some research online about depression. Many studies have shown that a healthy diet and regular exercise are more effective than the leading prescription medications in treating depression. It can be difficult to find the motivation to do this while depressed, but you will notice improvement in your mood very quickly if you force yourself to eat right and exercise. Not to mention, you will look better as well as feel better and a healthy body and attitude never hurts attraction.

 

[Fatal Jay]

are you simple? if you actually read the thread you would see that the problem is the exact opposite of that - i don't think i do it enough, because i have no desire or very little desire to do it.

and who said anything about weed? i don't smoke anything, let alone weed, nor do i drink alcohol at all nor do i drink coffee or soda.

lol its is so easy to talk **** on the internet,im trying to help your loser ass out

****ing 30 low life **** with no ambitions you sound like a ****ing broad

you sound like a b*tch who wants attention, your probably jobless too you smut monkey f*ckboy kill yourself

 

[Die Hard]

^^ lol, u mad bro?

 

[allen2000]

lol its is so easy to talk **** on the internet,im trying to help your loser ass out

****ing 30 low life **** with no ambitions you sound like a ****ing broad

you sound like a b*tch who wants attention, your probably jobless too you smut monkey f*ckboy kill yourself

1. yeah, isn't it easy to talk **** on the internet, bro? that's why your response is filled with angry cursing and mine was cool and to the point.

2. people are here to work through things, and issues they are having, not listen to presumptuos idiots like you chime in with dumb remarks. you're not helping anybody. and if you're not helping anybody, what's the point of being here?

 

[allen2000]

I agree. It sounds like you have depression. I've been there, had all the "symptoms" that you described.



It doesn't really matter if you believe in it or not. My grandfather didn't believe he had lung cancer, he still died from it.

No, medication is not the only answer (though I am not a doctor so do not consider this professional advice, some people do NEED medication for depression). Please do some research online about depression. Many studies have shown that a healthy diet and regular exercise are more effective than the leading prescription medications in treating depression. It can be difficult to find the motivation to do this while depressed, but you will notice improvement in your mood very quickly if you force yourself to eat right and exercise. Not to mention, you will look better as well as feel better and a healthy body and attitude never hurts attraction.

yeah that makes sense to me. i usually work out and run until it gets cold out, then i slump off until the spring. over the past couple of years i have noticed this affects me more and more. i put in a few sets on the weights the other day. i am also trying to get a more regular sleep cycle going.

thanks.

 

[foreverAFC]

i feel the exact same way as you bro, the only difference is i jerk off all the time cause im addicted to internet porn and have really have nothing better to do, i have no desire my flame has been extinguished

 

[SgtSplacker]

Sounds to me like you have some kind of hormonal problem. If your body chemistry is not right you will feel like this. What I feel really supports my theory is the fact that you don't really feel the urge to masturbate. You should feel the urge to masturbate more, it's normal. Are you getting any sunlight at all? Maybe your circadian rhythms are being affected by too much time inside.

Sometimes you can have something wrong inside and it's not going to be immediately apparent. You body stops producing hormones properly to deal with this suspected internal problem.

See a doctor if you really feel that listless. Tell him you are suffering from depression like symptoms but that you really have nothing be feel depressed about.

And remember working out always sucks at first, you have to go to feel better. You don't feel better then go to the gym.

 

[allen2000]

Sounds to me like you have some kind of hormonal problem. If your body chemistry is not right you will feel like this. What I feel really supports my theory is the fact that you don't really feel the urge to masturbate. You should feel the urge to masturbate more, it's normal. Are you getting any sunlight at all? Maybe your circadian rhythms are being affected by too much time inside.

Sometimes you can have something wrong inside and it's not going to be immediately apparent. You body stops producing hormones properly to deal with this suspected internal problem.

See a doctor if you really feel that listless. Tell him you are suffering from depression like symptoms but that you really have nothing be feel depressed about.

And remember working out always sucks at first, you have to go to feel better. You don't feel better then go to the gym.

Hmmm, thats interesting about the sunlight, because i do work in an office where there is very little natural light. years ago when i worked outside more this wasn't so much an issue.

i have been feeling this way for at least a year or more, maybe more like 2 years. i have been dating here and there, and even had a semi-LTR not that long ago, but i broke it off cause she was driving me crazy and i dated other girls since her so i know its not that that is bothering me.

and your right about working out, and i do always feel better once i get into the routine again.

 

[allen2000]

i feel the exact same way as you bro, the only difference is i jerk off all the time cause im addicted to internet porn and have really have nothing better to do, i have no desire my flame has been extinguished

well. how old are you? if you are in your 20's i would say you REALLY need to cut the cable on your internet and go out and do something productive. don't waste what could be one of the most promising decades of your life wanking over a bunch of hoes on the internet.

but, its easier said than done. i would suggest that you find some kind of hobby, sport or activity that you truly enjoy and focus some of your energy there. it really doesn't matter what it is, as long as its legal and relatively safe. that way, you can channel some of the focus and passion on a legitimate release rather than the porn.

i think my issue is more age related. but who knows you could be my age or older so whos to say.

 

[saturnalia]

i can't figure this out...

early 30's healthy male

i don't have any ambition anymore.
i don't want to go out on dates, it seems like too much effort.
i don't want to get intimate or close to ANYONE other than a few close friends.
i don't have much energy anymore
i would rather sleep or read online all day than do anything else.

its been like this for awhile now. what the **** shouod i do?

this is the sign for masculinity

http://0.tqn.com/d/astrology/1/0/6/-/-/-/Marsglyph.gif

it symbolizes male errection and the fact that a man is always on the go, following a path, striving and achieving

you stopped doing everything and you got putrid as stale water in the pond, that`s why you are depressed, the hardest as it may seem this is the time when you need to push even harder

as a man you always need to push your boundaries, always

and as the previous posters have mentioned, make sure that a shrink evaluates you, that you don`t got any major depressive disorder ... just in case

 

[Daily Insanity]

I lol'ed when I read this.


GUYS, you give obvious answers the man already know's and has tried.

What you are suffering from is called SAD. Seasonal Affective Disorder (Winter Blues) Read about it here:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seasonal_affective_disorder

To treat it is simple. Get more light, or order happy light (it works) amazon it.

This is a common disorder in people, so you arent alone. I used to suffer from it, it's weird. In the summer you're all good in the winter it sucks monkey azz.

Good luck to you.