"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dont wanna be friends no more...

Smileyz

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ok guys..

theres this girl..she's my friend for three years..i mean maybe now we are really close.. ok so when i apply the kino.. she seems to act normal likes shes used to it..she kino's me back like its second nature.. well she thinks of me as a friend..as her friend..well we dont want that..

now i would like to know how to stop being friends with her..and start a totally different realtionship with her.. if you guys know what i mean..

thanks much guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aight, now this is known as the friends zone and most people have not got a hells chance in freezing over of escaping it. It can be done, but the most important point is to stop caring about her, go and get yourself other girls. Read the Bible
 

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Find ways to get her aroused, there's tons of good stuff in Mr. Finger's DJ guide in the DJ Bible.

Look at her in a more sexual way, tell her how attractive you find her (but don't put her on a pedestal), start talking about sexual things. Favorite positions or if she's a virgin how she would like to lose it, and if she is a virgin it's good to say you are too and tell her how you'd like to lose your's, something like "To a special and beautiful woman whom I respect and can have a good time with... someone like you." One of many cheesy lines but if you're friends you're gonna have to break the ice some time. ALSO- don't go for a kiss out of nowhere, run a finger across her neck and then through her hair. If she gives you that stare then you can go in for a kiss.

Or just be a DJ and ask her on a real date.
 
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