Don't use your afc friends to hook up with women

[teddy]

One of my AFC friends knew this HB8 who was looking for someone to date. I told him to put in a good word for me. He hemmed and hawed and I was like "just straight up tell her that Teddy is a cool guy and she should meet up with him" and show her my pic.

And he was like "well...let me ask her best friend and see how to go about this."

And I said, "there's nothing "to go about this" about. Just say it straight up!"

Needless to say, he ended up writing on her facebook wall in the creepiest away imaginable that "a couple people thought" me and her "would make a good match, but she doesn't have to lol, they just wanted me to say it".

Meanwhile, she's setting up a date to get banged by a high school dropout tonight.

Don't use your AFC friends as a resource for girls. Does more harm than good.

 

[Albatross953]

No offense, but why do you need the intro? Why didn't you just go for it? Worked for the dropout...

 

[teddy]

No offense, but why do you need the intro? Why didn't you just go for it? Worked for the dropout...

She met the dropout on OKC.

I've never seen her before (other than her pics) and I don't have fb or anything like that.

 

[VladPatton]

I've learned the hard way as well! Those guys are good for nothing when it comes to girls. It's like having a ballerina fix a pick up truck.

And the dudes who can set you up only find you ugly, fat, uggah-buggah biznitches!

It's a do it yourself sort of project.

 

[teddy]

I've learned the hard way as well! Those guys are good for nothing when it comes to girls. It's like having a ballerina fix a pick up truck.

And the dudes who can set you up only find you ugly, fat, uggah-buggah biznitches!

It's a do it yourself sort of project.

Oh man, I can't pretend I'm a full-blown DJ, I'm still recovering AFC, but even I knew his game was brutal. And I was telling him before that he's gotta make me seem like a cool dude, not like he was being made to do it.

And what did he do? Made it seem like it was a chore.

And then he had the gall to get angry at ME, as if I was demanding too much from him.

 

[Don_Dom]

Oh man, I can't pretend I'm a full-blown DJ, I'm still recovering AFC, but even I knew his game was brutal. And I was telling him before that he's gotta make me seem like a cool dude, not like he was being made to do it.

And what did he do? Made it seem like it was a chore.

And then he had the gall to get angry at ME, as if I was demanding too much from him.

Have a really good friend from college that a book could be writen about. Like Leslie Neilson in the Naked Gun movies. Absolutely convinced that he's Mr. Slick while never noticing the path of ****bocking destruction he leaves in his wake. You gotta keep these people away from any woman you are interested in and, most definately don't let them "help."

Sounds like you were in a situation like I was once, where the girl you were after knew him better than you so including him was unavoidable. In my case, I met a co worker of his at a party and wound up taking her out a couple times. Everything was just fine until one day she completely stopped responding to calls and emails....He swore he didn't say **** to her about me because I threatened to kill him if he did, but I guarantee that's what happened. Numbnuts always trying to "help."

Another friend of ours has a story since ****blocker got married where he and the Mrs. completely ****blocked him with 2 girls at a party because they were all on this project of hooking him up with a friend of hers that he had no interest in. I live in a different city and, thankfully, don't have to deal with them.

VP nailed it....This really is a do it yourself project. The less people know about what you are doing the better off you will be, generally.

 

[TheGambino]

I know man my friends are like that too.

They bring up stupid childhood stories that are lame. They bring up stupid stories that actually happened very recent. They say stuff like ''hey remember when you told me approach all girls you like, guaranteed you'll get laid within a day'' in front of chick I'm gaming, happened to me a week ago(like man r you serious!??). Or their so stupid they don't see that they fvcking it up for me or they are doing it on purpose but it's godamn annoying.

Also I preach to always talk high value about eachother in front of chicks, that she sees your respecting eachother and that it's just the way it goes. You can make fun of eachother and have fun but remain high value and point out the fun adventurous stuff you guys do in your lifes instead of dissing, only ruins your chances.

 

[Don_Dom]

Oh, and by the way, we're all recovering AFCs. Some are just farther along than others.

 

[teddy]

yup, what I don't understand is why he couldn't have bothered to mention I was a high-value person. Instead, he had to be so roundabout to the point where he was like "you don't have to go out with him if you don't want to." I mean....why the **** would she even be willing to do it then?

And then when she never responded, he's just like "tough luck. If she wanted to respond, she would have." As if she's a goddess and she passed judgment on me.

 

[zekko]

Maybe your buddy has a crush on this chick himself.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I have the feeling your friend got carried away and left out a few key details about this HB8 looking for someone to date.

How well does he know her?

Did he hear it from her? Or did he hear from someone who knows someone that knows a friend oh hers?

Don't think he realized you'd jump on the opportunity like a tiger on a wounded gazelle.

Think your buddy found himself in a little bit of a bind ......and didn't know the best way to get out of it.

 

[teddy]

Maybe your buddy has a crush on this chick himself.

He has a girlfriend, so even if he does, don't understand the ****blocking.

 

[teddy]

I have the feeling your friend got carried away and left out a few key details about this HB8 looking for someone to date.

How well does he know her?

Did he hear it from her? Or did he hear from someone who knows someone that knows a friend oh hers?

Don't think he realized you'd jump on the opportunity like a tiger on a wounded gazelle.

Think your buddy found himself in a little bit of a bind ......and didn't know the best way to get out of it.

yeah, he knows her really well, the reason they became friends is they are in this bike riding group together. She tells him about his dating life. She's resorting to online dating and, like I said above, ended up going out with a high school dropout she found online last night.