"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't use TV sitcom and movie romance and love!

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Most of that stuff about love that you see in sitcoms and movies is totally fake. How did Laura choose Urkel over Stefan (Family Matters)? How did Screech (Saved by the Bell) get with Lisa and at one time Kelly?!:confused: In real life, the nerds would have been slapped silly or had their feelings hurt! For more examples, watch Lucas, Revenge of the Nerds, Love don't cost a thing, Can't buy me love. There's more, but that's just a few. Use your common sense to figure our what would happen in real life.

Sadly, I've seen people burn off lines from a Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, or Denzel Washington movie, only to be surprised when they don't win the girl.:crazy: PICK UP LINES AND ROMANCE MOVIE LINES HAVE A 0.001 SUCCESS RATE DAMMIT!!!

Build attraction, rapport, and make her feel for you instead of using those lines and you're well on your way!;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cease spamming his topic. If you have nothing useful to say then don't post.
 

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Espi said:
The problem with television romance is guys are being made fun of while the women are portrayed as angels.

For example, in the film Knocked Up, a wife berates her husband, calling him just about every bad word you can think; I sat there thinking, "There is no way ANY woman's going to talk to me like that." Yet, the audience was cracking up!

Of course, if the man had berated his wife in such fashion, it would be "verbal abuse."
I agree there man, and is it me or is making fun of guys like a fashion trend now, we get ripped on everything and anything these days, god I hate how feminine society has become these days and we say a thing to them and its a restraining order LOL.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah, anybody ever seen Step-by-Step? It's a funny show admitted, but the father, Frank, is whipped.
 
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