"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't use TV sitcom and movie romance and love!

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Most of that stuff about love that you see in sitcoms and movies is totally fake. How did Laura choose Urkel over Stefan (Family Matters)? How did Screech (Saved by the Bell) get with Lisa and at one time Kelly?!:confused: In real life, the nerds would have been slapped silly or had their feelings hurt! For more examples, watch Lucas, Revenge of the Nerds, Love don't cost a thing, Can't buy me love. There's more, but that's just a few. Use your common sense to figure our what would happen in real life.

Sadly, I've seen people burn off lines from a Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, or Denzel Washington movie, only to be surprised when they don't win the girl.:crazy: PICK UP LINES AND ROMANCE MOVIE LINES HAVE A 0.001 SUCCESS RATE DAMMIT!!!

Build attraction, rapport, and make her feel for you instead of using those lines and you're well on your way!;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cease spamming his topic. If you have nothing useful to say then don't post.
 

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Espi said:
The problem with television romance is guys are being made fun of while the women are portrayed as angels.

For example, in the film Knocked Up, a wife berates her husband, calling him just about every bad word you can think; I sat there thinking, "There is no way ANY woman's going to talk to me like that." Yet, the audience was cracking up!

Of course, if the man had berated his wife in such fashion, it would be "verbal abuse."
I agree there man, and is it me or is making fun of guys like a fashion trend now, we get ripped on everything and anything these days, god I hate how feminine society has become these days and we say a thing to them and its a restraining order LOL.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, anybody ever seen Step-by-Step? It's a funny show admitted, but the father, Frank, is whipped.
 
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