"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dont use the phrase "omg" when texting a girl.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FinalWay

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did you use it? sorry i had to lol. where did this come from? more details amigo.
 

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i used to, then i saw it used on a commercial for gossip girl and realized that it was very effeminite lol
 

FinalWay

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i don't think a text should define how you are as a man. i say ttyl when im too tired...whats the difference? worry more about how you act in person anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JCballin88

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You can do it if you're obviously being C/F. But electronic communication tends to be misinterpreted more often than not, so you have to already have solid rapport established with the female.
 

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JCballin88 said:
You can do it if you're obviously being C/F. But electronic communication tends to be misinterpreted more often than not, so you have to already have solid rapport established with the female.
well said
 

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JCballin88 said:
You can do it if you're obviously being C/F. But electronic communication tends to be misinterpreted more often than not, so you have to already have solid rapport established with the female.
I like this one.

omg does sound feminine when you use it in a texting and there's no rapport/ attraction.
 

Just a Shot Away

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I'm about to drop texting all together. I feel like I give chicks an easy out to give me excuses not to go out with me.

Going to try to give calling a shot...
 

FinalWay

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well if she sends me a pic message and it looks good well then i might say OMG!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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