Don't underestimate the kiss test

[digitalrat]

I've been messing around with this girl for awhile now. We've cuddled, I've massaged her legs, her stomach, fvcking everything.
She's laid on me and watched movies and shows all the signs of attraction. We even went on a "date" with her on July 4th. A person said "You guys going out?" and I went "Yeah, this is our first date" She said nothing. I didn't kiss close on the first date because my car broke down and a lot of shiit happened.

Now, a couple nights ago I tried to kiss her in a playful way. She covered her face and wouldnt let me. So, I called her five minutes ago and said "Listen, I like you and I know we have fun, but I dont want to get involved with someone that has a boyfriend."

And she's gives me "You don't have to clarify anything, we were just friends, I thought it was like that, didnt know you felt different" Some shiit like that.

ALWAYS kiss close. It's the only way to really know if she really likes you or not.

So, this girl is NEXTed. I might become "friends" with her because she lives so damn close.

I don't know why, but I feel fvcking great right now.

 

[Slickster]

Hey Rat.

You posted about this girl the other day.

You were supposed to focus on having as much fun with her as you could and then become unavailable. Remember?

That was supposed to be a several weeks not just two days.

Oh well sounds like she played you.

You didn't listen last time but here's my advice this time.

Don't be her friend. If you want any chance with her ignore her.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by digitalrat
"Listen, I like you and I know we have fun, but I dont want to get involved with someone that has a boyfriend."/B]

You were supposed to use that line when she came running to you to find out why you were ignoring her.

 

[digitalrat]

Really, I didnt feel like waiting that long. I avoided her for 3 days and actually saw her on the street and took off the 1st day.

But, I wanted to get this **** off my chest before my trip and I think I did the right thing. I feel a lot better.

 

[stallion]

Unless the sight of her annoys you, I don't think its a good idea to ignore her totally. You should treat her as an acquaintance at least. Say hello when you see her on the streets, ignoring her would show that her LJBF got you and that you can't handle it properly. Better to show class than nothing.