"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont u just hate being B.S'D

Customer122

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i had this LTR fro about 3 years , during that time i did a lot for this woman and she for me,begining of this year i got a better job in another town and things were effectivly long distance

about 3 months back she suddenly hits me with an 'i need space'. upon confrontation , i got pathetic excuses ranging from

'there is nothing wrong i just need space" all the way to

'i feel things in my life aint going well because im in a relationship' :confused: :confused:

It also happens that she had myseteriously been uncontactable via cellphone the day prior to her dropping this bombshell.

Anyway , ive been in the game a while , and i could smell the B.S from a 1000miles away.So i immediatley went total NC and spun the discs without looking back.

Last night (1 am) HB calls me , under the guise that she was thinking of me and wanted to say hi.After all the formalities i politely ask her out of intrest why the 'i need space' 3 months earleir

Her response

'it doesnt matter now , it was personal ,nothing to do with another guy, it was best for us both of us,i just called to say hi':confused:

In my mind im thinking **** B.S !!!!!! , this woman really undermines me.

MY response

listen lady ,Please dont ever contact me again , im aint your Buddy whom you can sporadically call for chit chat ! Personal reasons my ass ,
i wasnt born yesterday,after all we shared you couldve at least had the decency to tell to my face what your issue was.U let me down.

and with that i hung up.Im incensed at how they blatantly think they can B.S us.Its comical really.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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typical

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You should have never picked the phone up in her mind she still thinks your a chump because she got a reaction out of you, thats all she wanted.

Remember any person that gives you bullsh!t in life isn't worth the time of day to even talk to. They have shown you good reason why they are inferior and or insecure and worthless human beings to interact with.

From now on you just give them your poker face and keep walking.
 

Tiguere

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we humans stop with the hide your emotions BS. i applaud the OP for putting her in her place. good thing with hanging up showed her you have made your point and arent looking for anything in return out of her.
 
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