don't think I blew it yet...advice on how to proceed?

[samueladams]

Long story short...

Got some #'s on thursday night...one in particular, HB8.5 caught my attention and with her she gave me her # when she was leaving rather than me having asked for it as I had to tend to a drunk @ss friend about 2 min. after meeting her, then closing time.

So...got the #'s mixed up b/c I suck w/names texted the one I though was hers (friday afternoon) and was like you the tall brunette from the last night right? 30 min. pass...text back "yes I am. nice to hear from you."

I don't respond and go out friday night with my boys.

Well tonight I was working. I'm a med student and while at the hospital we're not allowed to talk on phones. During my 12 hr. shift I was in from 11am to 11 pm tonight...texted her around 7pm something like "you up for lunch tomm? I'd rather call you but I'm working at the hospital till 11 and they ban us from using phones"

She knows I'm a med student so figured that was kosher and my only real free day for lunch is Sunday due to classes and crap...She's a college broad also...senior.

Anyways she may or may not call/text me back tonight seeing as it was an AFC move...but sh*t was trying to set something up best way I could with what I had available to me.

In any case it ok to just call her at noon tomm. and be like you up for lunch in an hr? Or should I now wait till Sunday afternoon...call her and set up some crap during the week...sure as hell don't wanna do dinner yet...barely remember what the broad looks like but I do remeber a mental note saying HB8.5.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

This may or may not be salvagable, but a better question is why would you text her if you didn't plan on responding in the first place? That's weak. I'm all for being a challenge and all, but you need to create rapport and remind her of the attraction she felt for you when you contact her. I'm not a big fan of texting either, whatever happened to being a man and calling her?

Anyways, if she doesn't respond to your text today, give it a few days and try again, but this time CALL HER. If you don't get a response after this, then move on.

In the future, be direct and call your #'s when you have time to talk for 5-10 minutes. Then once the attraction is there and you've hung out a couple times work really hammering the challenge aspect in to your game.





PIMP

 

[anointed]

txting is kinda geigh.. it incraseses the oppurtunity for game playing.. good thing is the days are on your side.. its beginning of the week and usually people done plan their next weekend too much a week in advance.. so yea, firsto f all dont txt her anymroe.. Call her sunday or monday evening around 830 and set up for maybe thurs-friday.. remember be specific on your time.. it increases ur likelyhood of her counter offering if she really cant make it then i find.. if she doesnt counter its low IL.. proceed how u will..