xdreamz said:
i like to think possibilities
every woman out there is a possibility for you.
I think that is such a great way to think about it. Wow.
you never know until you try, but if she honestly is giving me some clues that she is uninteresd then i would show signs that i'm not interested in her i'm just chatting it up for fun....
Right, that's what I do!
i like to think that every girl wants me because that's what a perfect 10 would do........
It's official. My mind is blown. That is such a great way of thinking about it, and I think you're right. If I just say what's on my mind, and a girl doesn't like me, she's just not for me and that's ok. She's just not for me.
A girl who's my dream girl will love me for just being me. And every action and word of mine is an expression of who I am.
In fact, I think a girl who's for me would actively dislike me if I put on a facade about myself.
Thanks for sharing your way of viewing things, bro. I benefited.
WE'RE ALL HUMAN.....HUMANS ARE FLAWED....SO HOW CAN WE BE SUCCESSFUL 100% OF THE TIME...WE CAN'T...IT'S REALITY
Right. I would also add that the precise way you worded that seems a bit negative in two ways.
1.) Just because a girl doesn't like us, doesn't mean it's because of some sort of flaw in us. I mean approaching a girl on the street means that I have no idea what sort of mental state she's in, where she's going, what she did that day. No clue. It's easy to feel like a girl acting really disinterested has anything to do with us, but usually it's not, and there's just nothing no normal human could or even should do.
All I'm saying is, it's not necessarily even our fault.
2.) I think our "flaws" are our biggest asset. I see a world around me where people are trying to appear perfect all the time. And you know, I've realized that there's something more powerful than perfection: it's having flaws but being comfortable, open, and even funny about them.
The power of a great personality makes so-called flaws attractive and compelling - in a word, fascinating.
This makes people open up, and feel completely comfortable. That is a powerful thing, one you are not going to hear much about on this site.