"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheFixer14

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I am writing this after a poor experience at the red pill sub Reddit. I thought that after listening to the book of pook that it could be cool.

I was wrong. A bunch of self obsessed wannabe alpha males.

What got me upset is that I was speaking about two girls that I was dating. One I met while speaking about anime. And someone decided to single me out on that. Saying that weebs watch it. That I am a dork. It's nerdy. Someone even said "watching anime isn't going to get you a girl who rock climbs".

Who says I want to date a rock climber?

What made me turned off was that they were judging me off of one thing. Never mind that I am an actor and filmmaker and the big reason why I watch anime is to get creatively inspired (attack on Titan is better than anything that Hollywood puts out). Or how I play the guitar and sing. Never mind that I am a racer having races go karts and races dirt cars. Or how I used to do Kung fu, played football, basketball, soccer, and baseball. Forget that I can skateboard and surf. That I don't even play video games much nowadays. But apparently I am just a good looking guy so I don't have to game.

I believe it's all about being able to fit into different places. I am comfortable at a race, a fancy entertainment industry event, or talking about anime with different people. What does it matter?

People seem to have this notion that you must act a certain way to get girls. There are no rules. It's about being your true self. Doing you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sph21

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A bunch of self obsessed wannabe alpha males
They have no idea of how to be your true self. What works for one person may not work for another. This is why I never try to change even my friend to be a true man. Every man must find their own true understanding of how to act as a man. If you need to fake your own personality, you'll only attract the wrong kind of women.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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l_e_g_e_n_d

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I am writing this after a poor experience at the red pill sub Reddit. I thought that after listening to the book of pook that it could be cool.

I was wrong. A bunch of self obsessed wannabe alpha males.

What got me upset is that I was speaking about two girls that I was dating. One I met while speaking about anime. And someone decided to single me out on that. Saying that weebs watch it. That I am a dork. It's nerdy. Someone even said "watching anime isn't going to get you a girl who rock climbs".

Who says I want to date a rock climber?

What made me turned off was that they were judging me off of one thing. Never mind that I am an actor and filmmaker and the big reason why I watch anime is to get creatively inspired (attack on Titan is better than anything that Hollywood puts out). Or how I play the guitar and sing. Never mind that I am a racer having races go karts and races dirt cars. Or how I used to do Kung fu, played football, basketball, soccer, and baseball. Forget that I can skateboard and surf. That I don't even play video games much nowadays. But apparently I am just a good looking guy so I don't have to game.

I believe it's all about being able to fit into different places. I am comfortable at a race, a fancy entertainment industry event, or talking about anime with different people. What does it matter?

People seem to have this notion that you must act a certain way to get girls. There are no rules. It's about being your true self. Doing you.
Ah shut up squirt, and live as I tell you.
 
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