"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheFixer14

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I am writing this after a poor experience at the red pill sub Reddit. I thought that after listening to the book of pook that it could be cool.

I was wrong. A bunch of self obsessed wannabe alpha males.

What got me upset is that I was speaking about two girls that I was dating. One I met while speaking about anime. And someone decided to single me out on that. Saying that weebs watch it. That I am a dork. It's nerdy. Someone even said "watching anime isn't going to get you a girl who rock climbs".

Who says I want to date a rock climber?

What made me turned off was that they were judging me off of one thing. Never mind that I am an actor and filmmaker and the big reason why I watch anime is to get creatively inspired (attack on Titan is better than anything that Hollywood puts out). Or how I play the guitar and sing. Never mind that I am a racer having races go karts and races dirt cars. Or how I used to do Kung fu, played football, basketball, soccer, and baseball. Forget that I can skateboard and surf. That I don't even play video games much nowadays. But apparently I am just a good looking guy so I don't have to game.

I believe it's all about being able to fit into different places. I am comfortable at a race, a fancy entertainment industry event, or talking about anime with different people. What does it matter?

People seem to have this notion that you must act a certain way to get girls. There are no rules. It's about being your true self. Doing you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sph21

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A bunch of self obsessed wannabe alpha males
They have no idea of how to be your true self. What works for one person may not work for another. This is why I never try to change even my friend to be a true man. Every man must find their own true understanding of how to act as a man. If you need to fake your own personality, you'll only attract the wrong kind of women.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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l_e_g_e_n_d

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I am writing this after a poor experience at the red pill sub Reddit. I thought that after listening to the book of pook that it could be cool.

I was wrong. A bunch of self obsessed wannabe alpha males.

What got me upset is that I was speaking about two girls that I was dating. One I met while speaking about anime. And someone decided to single me out on that. Saying that weebs watch it. That I am a dork. It's nerdy. Someone even said "watching anime isn't going to get you a girl who rock climbs".

Who says I want to date a rock climber?

What made me turned off was that they were judging me off of one thing. Never mind that I am an actor and filmmaker and the big reason why I watch anime is to get creatively inspired (attack on Titan is better than anything that Hollywood puts out). Or how I play the guitar and sing. Never mind that I am a racer having races go karts and races dirt cars. Or how I used to do Kung fu, played football, basketball, soccer, and baseball. Forget that I can skateboard and surf. That I don't even play video games much nowadays. But apparently I am just a good looking guy so I don't have to game.

I believe it's all about being able to fit into different places. I am comfortable at a race, a fancy entertainment industry event, or talking about anime with different people. What does it matter?

People seem to have this notion that you must act a certain way to get girls. There are no rules. It's about being your true self. Doing you.
Ah shut up squirt, and live as I tell you.
 
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