Don't Take Women Seriously

[justiceseeker]

If there's one piece of advice that will further your success with women more than almost any other, it's this.


When you take a woman seriously, you give her POWER. At that point, she knows that her words and actions will have an effect on you. This gives her a sense of empowerment. When she has this, she becomes the prize and you will eventually be dumped.

Now don't mistake not taking women seriously with being disrespectful. It has nothing to do with that. But when a woman gives you a shyt test, throws a tantrum, or pulls any other nonsense out of her ass, you simply either don't respond, or respond like you would to a child by making fun of her or laughing it off.

Why does this work so well? For whatever reason, when you take a woman seriously, they lose respect for you. Women know that 99.9 percent of what they do is BS and they will lose respect for you if you can't see that. You're not her girlfriend, you're not her doctor, you're not her psychologist, you're her boyfriend. Sure you can wrap your arms around her once in awhile if she's having a tough time, but never get too drippy. It's sad, but a lot of well meaning men have been nexted for being too caring during a tough time. You can't save anyone, you can only be who you are. Let the professionals handle that.

It's been said before, but if you treat your girlfriend like a bratty kid sister, she'll respect you more.

 

[slaog]

Simple and effective advice!

 

[Desdinova]

when you take a woman seriously, they lose respect for you.

Not necessarily. You should take what they say with a grain of salt, but you should take their actions seriously. If your woman is heavily flirting with another guy, then she's either fvcking him or she's going to fvck him. If you don't take that seriously, she will continue to walk all over you.

 

[justiceseeker]

Not necessarily. You should take what they say with a grain of salt, but you should take their actions seriously. If your woman is heavily flirting with another guy, then she's either fvcking him or she's going to fvck him. If you don't take that seriously, she will continue to walk all over you.

True. I didn't say you should let her disrespect you, I said just don't react to their BS. If a woman does start flirting, the best way to handle that is to simply walk away. Don't give her any warning, simply disappear and let her live with her decision. I know that this sounds like strong arm tactics, but women use them on us almost everyday. You have to set boundaries, but don't give them the reactions they're seeking.

 

[justiceseeker]

Here's another piece of advice. If you want to up your attraction with women TRY BEING SELFISH.

That's right. Almost every woman I've spoken to that's been head over heels for a guy has done so for someone who puts their own needs above theirs. Women instinctively know when their value is higher than yours. It's the guys who don't react to their crap and who don't make her their priority.

Don't think that you're treating women bad. This is the type of behavior they crave. It's women who set this silly agenda, so give them what they want. Giving gifts, calling too much, giving too many compliments are all counter-productive. The less you give her the more she'll want.

 

[r0cky]

Thanks for pointing out what has been repeated over and over in ALL seduction articles. Newbtard.

 

[Axcell]

Thanks for pointing out what has been repeated over and over in ALL seduction articles. Newbtard.

Be a bit more polite, he's just trying to post some advice.

 

[DonGorgon]

When you take a woman seriously, you give her POWER. .

REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU DO, SHE HAS POWER!! Cause for every 2 women you get attention from she gets attention from 20 men.

Between 18 and 30 when she is most attractive/desirable she learns to leverage this power as efficiently as possible to get what she wants when she wants it and from whom she want it,....

Sadly, its often not untill she is over 40 years old that she has any reason to develope mentally and become a person worth being with for more than just PU$$Y!

 

[Sandow]

Here's another piece of advice. If you want to up your attraction with women TRY BEING SELFISH.

That's right. Almost every woman I've spoken to that's been head over heels for a guy has done so for someone who puts their own needs above theirs. Women instinctively know when their value is higher than yours. It's the guys who don't react to their crap and who don't make her their priority.

Don't think that you're treating women bad. This is the type of behavior they crave. It's women who set this silly agenda, so give them what they want. Giving gifts, calling too much, giving too many compliments are all counter-productive. The less you give her the more she'll want.

the person who cares less ALWAYS has the most control.

 

[DonGorgon]

the person who cares less ALWAYS has the most control.

And the person who cares less is usually the one with more options..... In most cases the female.

 

[HolyG]

And the person who cares less is usually the one with more options..... In most cases the female.

Stop talking in BOLD!!!

 

[DonGorgon]

Stop talking in BOLD!!!

Stop focusing on shallow, simple, superficial, crap that is much less important that the information at hand, from which you can learn. You come across like an over sensitive female or a typical 2008 AFC male when you do that.

Oh no i get it , this - "REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU DO, SHE HAS POWER!! Cause for every 2 women you get attention from she gets attention from 20 men." hurt your feeling so you wanted to lash out at the messenger...

 

[PlayToWin]

Thanks for pointing out what has been repeated over and over in ALL seduction articles. Newbtard.

So what do you suggest, we just only talk about new discoveries in the DJ field. Guess what just about every situation and piece of advice has been posted and given out at least once on this board. Should we just close all the threads and make it to where everything is read only?

Its a forum, if anything keep posts coming, even if they are a slight bit repetitive, because even if you already know it, its still good to be reminded every once in a while of these principles. Sometimes re-reading similar advice changes your perspective on a current situation.

Plus every forum dies off, once on the board vets start complaining that threads are repetitive. Then all the new members get feed up with people complaining instead of posting productive advice. Then when there are no new members, then the board dies.

So please, either shut up and ignore threads that YOU think are repetitive, at least for the fact that it at least keeps the board active, and maybe new people haven't read all the advice you have yet.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

There is a difference between what a woman says and what a woman does.

 

[penkitten]

ironically i told someone today to treat her new boyfriend like she does her brothers and he wouldn't give her any lip.

hey i never promised anyone would be happy about it, just that she would have the upper hand.

 

[slaog]

REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU DO, SHE HAS POWER!! Cause for every 2 women you get attention from she gets attention from 20 men.

Between 18 and 30 when she is most attractive/desirable she learns to leverage this power as efficiently as possible to get what she wants when she wants it and from whom she want it,....

Sadly, its often not untill she is over 40 years old that she has any reason to develope mentally and become a person worth being with for more than just PU$$Y!

Yes and most men realise this thats why most men are AFC's but when you become a DJ you have the power because you're not like most men and you are rare to women.

 

[KingBeef]

REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU DO, SHE HAS POWER!! Cause for every 2 women you get attention from she gets attention from 20 men.

Between 18 and 30 when she is most attractive/desirable she learns to leverage this power as efficiently as possible to get what she wants when she wants it and from whom she want it,....

Sadly, its often not untill she is over 40 years old that she has any reason to develope mentally and become a person worth being with for more than just PU$$Y!

so what are you saying??? Is the situation hopeless??? need critical feedback

 

[DonGorgon]

so what are you saying??? Is the situation hopeless??? need critical feedback

Its not hopeless... but many men will not survive it...

You gotta have plenty game money and looks to have a good chance..

 

[nando]

So what do you suggest, we just only talk about new discoveries in the DJ field. Guess what just about every situation and piece of advice has been posted and given out at least once on this board. Should we just close all the threads and make it to where everything is read only?

Its a forum, if anything keep posts coming, even if they are a slight bit repetitive, because even if you already know it, its still good to be reminded every once in a while of these principles. Sometimes re-reading similar advice changes your perspective on a current situation.

Plus every forum dies off, once on the board vets start complaining that threads are repetitive. Then all the new members get feed up with people complaining instead of posting productive advice. Then when there are no new members, then the board dies.

So please, either shut up and ignore threads that YOU think are repetitive, at least for the fact that it at least keeps the board active, and maybe new people haven't read all the advice you have yet.

He said that because like many others on this forum he recognized the fact that OP is a troll who aside from the hooker he felt up, has no real experience with women.

OP stole pics of a muscular male and claimed they were him and when called out to post a pic with a msg confirming he was the guy, he refused and made some bs excuse about how you can see him on cam, instead of posting the pic which takes 2 min. Any guy who needs to attention ***** on a forum like this with other men pics is not someone you want to be taking advice from.

 

[justiceseeker]

He said that because like many others on this forum he recognized the fact that OP is a troll who aside from the hooker he felt up, has no real experience with women.

OP stole pics of a muscular male and claimed they were him and when called out to post a pic with a msg confirming he was the guy, he refused and made some bs excuse about how you can see him on cam, instead of posting the pic which takes 2 min. Any guy who needs to attention ***** on a forum like this with other men pics is not someone you want to be taking advice from.

I started a legitimate thread here trying to give advice. Again, nandy pants hijacks my thread. How many times is he going to be allowed to do this before he's banned?

Message me in private if you have something to say Mr "I won't give me cell number, but I'll come to your house and fight you"