"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thechallenger

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I work in a very wealthy neighborhood scottsdale/paradise valley az. I have observed that the point of life to these people, is all about the status and perception of other people not themselves.

Are all these b1tches living an illusion?


Do any of them actually realize that the monitary possesions they obtain, are pointless! Does having all the flashy phones, jewlrey, clothes, CARS make them a better person.
If so and that is true what would happen if they lost it all
like in texas, after the hurricane.

Do you think that any of those victims give a rats Fukking ass about their I phones and their dolce and gabbana shades! HELL NO!

Growing up poor has tought me so much that these wealthy people havnt had to learn. Material possessions mean nothing and i never get attached to any thing. If i lose what my heart desires i shrugg it off and move on before another second goes by.

Life is not about what you have, or who you know, where youve been, or the like. Its about who you are. The type of person you are will attract the type of person you are So if you are one of those, caught up in money and wealth status youll likely find a hoe just as shallow as you!Now get off my thread you douche! For the rest of us hear me out.

Would you rather have a rich HB 10 with a miserable personallity and more problems that a math book, or.....an hb7 who has a true personallity and character to her. and who cooks for you cleans for you treats you absolutley like a king? ive had a one of each, and i can honesly say that the latter was by for the best choice.

One of my favorite movies on this subject youve all seen is fightclub.
LIsten to the subliminal massages Brad pits character states through out the movie and youll find its true.
YOU will gain everything only after you have lost every thing:rockon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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Fight Club is an extreme example, and the fact that the guy is schizo. Where youve been and who you know DO matter. I may know someone whose been through rough times and they may have positively affected my life. I went to Argentina this summer and that was an experience ill never forget and it made me appreciate everything i have and living in the united states. Sounds like youre pretty much just irritated by rich girls. While you rant had good intentions, i think you were kinda off...smoke some weed or something and chill out.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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You can be rich and still appreciate what you have.

I grew up poor.
I spent years as a grunt in the Corps, sleeping in the mud and living the definition of misery.

Now as I progress through life I like my luxuries. I like excess. I strive to climb to the top of comfort.

I've been to the bottom. The bottom is good in that it teaches you perspective. But because I'd rather be on the top doesn't mean I don't value anything.

You give successful people much too little credit.

I do agree on your last point though. Personality is everything.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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You see when you are somebody, maybe you live the high life, it's good to visit the low life, to remember your roots and take some time to appreciate what you have.

When you live the low life, it's good to visit the high life to look at what you have to strive for.

Reality is easy to lose. HB10 that got everything handed to her from Mommy and Daddy may be in for a rude awakening when she moves out of the house or gets old enough to have to pay for things on her own. Then, when she gets with YOU, and you hand her things, well she can either appreciate it because she's seen the low life, or go back into the habit of expecting things to be handed to her.

I see most of the attractive girls around here to have unrealistic expectations of men. Chances are, if they're hot, they came from decent homes, and were able to afford makeup, nice clothing, etc. And yet most of them are lazy and don't have strong work ethics.

I'd take the HB10 though. I took an HB8 once that never worked, never went to school, so I stopped paying. The relationship continued and then when it ended she wrote me an e-mail saying "I really need someone who's going to pay for me, and pick me up all the time. Everything with you was 50-50 And since you don't do that, good bye." (btw I once had her mom scream at me because she found out I wasn't paying for everything she ate, so we can see where she learned from)
 
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