"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't Put Women on a Pedestal

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The problem is, many guys will not even know they are putting a girl on a pedestal. Even those who understand the theory of pedestalizing women, they have not internized it enough. Therefore you have guys who are unable to recognize themselves doing it or to distinguish the concept from reality when a woman is behaving in response to it. They will rationalize that their situation is different. This is why you see guys tolerating things from women with the idea they are being indifferent (but really they do mind), or when they fantasize about her and how she stands above other women in looks, and because they get rushed with thought and accompanying emotion over her they ignore the fact they are placing her in pedestal zone, and as long as they rationalize that it is worth it, as long as she reciprocates, they will keep that little gremlin in their mind telling them ' don't mess up'. That's why I (we) stress that you MUST own the frame the beginning, that way you desensitize yourself from her and create real indifference while screening her and getting to know her. You want women to earn your value. No, want to earn your value. In turn, a woman will want to give you value in hopes of gaining yours.
 
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