"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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don't pressure yourself

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Alotta times, I would be hesitant to start conversations with people out of fear that I would not be entertaining enough and I won't seem interesting. I felt like I had to come up with a good conversation topic first, and then only stick to it when we were talking.

Now I just start talking, even if it starts out as something boring. As long as I give room for the other person to person to add to the conversation (not just ramble on), and leave oppurtunities for a change of conversation, I eventully find ways to have entertaining conversations, throw some good jokes, and to connect with the other person.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That is important.

It amazes me that many people are not having fun while running a pickup.

If you arnt having fun and being happy how can you expect people to be happy about you talking to them.
 
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