SexPDX
Master Don Juan
Those of you who have not been here long may be a little overwhelmed that you have just gotten the memo that you have been an AFC, a nice guy, a supplicant and everything you have been doing your whole life with regards to women is for the most part the WRONG way to do things. Feel lucky to have the benefit of what you are learning here. Approach women, step outside your comfort zone, find out what works and what doesn't.
However don't fall into the trap of being a pseudo-badass because of your frustration with your "old self". This includes behaviors such as hurling insults at girls who reject you, causing scenes as unnecessary diplays of egocentric behavior, etc. I had this mindset for a period of time and if you do a search on the name 'trickynick' you will see that my posting history reflected such an attitude for a while.
The problem with this is that it causes you not to learn from your experiences because it is much more comforting to believe that you are the sh1t and you are going to be the way you are going to be and fvck anyone who doesn't like it. You may think you are acting like a "jerk" by doing these things and jerks get girls. The truth is that you are actually not appearing like the "jerk" who gets laid, you just look like a pathetic choad. The truth is many women DO like nice guys, they just don't like spineless worms. You don't have to be an obnoxious jerk or even attempt to appear as one to get what you want.
Nick
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- The performer known as Nick
However don't fall into the trap of being a pseudo-badass because of your frustration with your "old self". This includes behaviors such as hurling insults at girls who reject you, causing scenes as unnecessary diplays of egocentric behavior, etc. I had this mindset for a period of time and if you do a search on the name 'trickynick' you will see that my posting history reflected such an attitude for a while.
The problem with this is that it causes you not to learn from your experiences because it is much more comforting to believe that you are the sh1t and you are going to be the way you are going to be and fvck anyone who doesn't like it. You may think you are acting like a "jerk" by doing these things and jerks get girls. The truth is that you are actually not appearing like the "jerk" who gets laid, you just look like a pathetic choad. The truth is many women DO like nice guys, they just don't like spineless worms. You don't have to be an obnoxious jerk or even attempt to appear as one to get what you want.
Nick
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- The performer known as Nick