"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how exactly do you give this message to women? isn't this what women are attracted to?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You give this message by not acting needy and calling her too often.

You give this message by walking away and not coming back the first time she flirts with another guy to hurt you for some perceived wrong rather than coming to you and openly communicating about the issue.

You give this message by making it clear to her you walk at the first sign of disrespect with no second chances. The more chances you give a woman to disrespect you the more chances she will take and the more respect you will lose.

You give this message by staying at the top of your game by remaining in top physical condition as well remaining exciting and a challenge for her. Never let boredom, routine and complacency enter into your relationship and you can have any girl for just about as long as you want her.

You give this message by not playing her therapist and letting her dump tremendous loads of emotional vomit on you for you to solve, sure listen to her every once in a while and in really hard situations in life like a family member or friend of her's dying but other than this let her deal with her own emotional problems the grand majority of the time. If you do not and think she will be greatful for your help you are sorely mistaken and only setting yourself up for a failed relationship as she will come to associate you with her emotional pain and weakness and search for a new man who is a blank slate as far as she is concerned who can be viewed as an object of complete desire by her while you the representation of the worst parts of herself are left behind.
 
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To add on to Kontroller's points,

Realize that she does not fill any void in your life nor does she complete your life in any way shape or form. She is there as your companion. She is not the center of gravity around which your life revolves around. You don't run to her for approvals. You let her know that she is not the only source of intimacy in your life (i.e. you can pull any girl you want). You don't depend on her for money, love, sex, social status, and self-esteem.
 
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thanks. i was reading some other threads and it said that this guy said all the right things at the right time. what exactly do you have to say?
 
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