Dont Look At Girls' Bodies.

[gravityeyelids]

This has been a huge sticking point in my game and it took me a while to realize it.

When you are at a social setting where you may be intimidated, try this: Don't look at the girl's body AT ALL. Don't check her out from across the room, dont peek at her sexy ass in that tight skirt, just look at her face the entire time, especially when you're approaching and talking to her initially.

I first noticed this phenomenon when i approached a pair of sorority girls at the library during the day. They were just chilling in sweatshirts and pants, not very flattering. But they had nice faces. I ran some excellent game and number closed them. Naturally i creeped on the girl i was going after on facebook and i was very surprised to see that she was very very attractive. Not that i cant pull attractive girls, and not that she didnt look cute in person....but i was proud of how non-nonchalantly i gamed her.
(For all the haters that are gonna say "well those were her facebook pics brah, obviously they're going to make her look good"..There were a couple dozen pics and i can tell the difference b/w high angle, flatteringly lit, color corrected, high contrast, fake shots and the ones that show what they actually look like.)

My point being that if you're anything like me, you get extremely intimidated at social settings where the girls look INCREDIBLY hot. I go to a party school....you wouldnt believe how hot the girls are. You go to a bumping bar on a saturday night and its the elite hotties dressed their best in skimpy, sexy outfits that make you put them on a massive pedestal. It's hard not to stare when these girls are in pushup bras and miniskirts and tight pants just begging to get fvcked.

HOWEVER. I discovered this trick. Try to avoid looking at their bodies. Keep your eyes at eye-level both when scanning the room and walking up and talking to them. It's much easier to game a superhot chick when you're not focused on her boobs and ass and hoping desperately to get in her pants. It can be very discouraging when you are about to approach or talk to a girl and then realize she has the banging body of a 10. Within a matter of seconds your nerves can be completely shot. Some may worry about gaming a girl with a nice face and then discovering her body sucks...But you can tell a lot about how in shape a girl is by her face. Bodyfat is distributed relatively evenly throughout the body, and how fat a girl's face is, is related to her body composition. Kind of like how in the movie Ray, Ray charles can tell how attractive a girl is simply by feeling her hand and wrist. Plus, you can just avoid her if you game her a few mins and discover her body sucks...no harm done.

Keep avoiding looking at her body even as you game her for a few minutes. For me, the hardest part is approaching and having them warm up to you. After i'm locked in, i usually relax and just go for gold. At that point, sure, check her out and make sure she's hot.

Another upside to this is that you avoid being the creepy guy that goes around checking out a**es and boobies. Girls can absolutely tell when you're looking at their goodies. And nearly all the time it's a turn off. Staring at them conveys that you dont have an abundance mentality and that you're desperate for a lay. Not to mention that staring at a girl's tits from a distance is one thing...but if you're trying to chat her up and your eyes keep wandering downward, i can GUARANTEE you wont get very far.

Stay Thirsty my friends

 

[skinnyguy]

Better yet, don't look at them at all

 

[hop On hop Off]

Post above, lol.

@OP: I think it's very hard, unless you do it conscious, even then, there might be a chance you look at it.

You tell yourself to look beyond her body. Also tell yourself, this is her prime time. Her value will depreciate as time goes on---she will look wrinkled and saggy. I'd be surprised if you haven't puked.

 

[_sideways_]

What does that mean skinny dyck. ..I mean guy lol

 

[In2theGame]

It all depends i guess. Ive mentioned many times to very good looking women that I've been checking them out from top to bottom and that's why i came over to say Hi. I'd say ALL of them loved it but then again.. it depends on the setting your in and maybe how you say it to them.

 

[Tomo]

Or remember the the 10's that friendzoned you back in the day? Or the grocery lady that turns eyes or etc (you get the drift). I find best you 'short term pain for long term gain' and make friends, grab coffees with them, actually talk to them. The more you do, the more you get use to not only talking to woman but beautiful woman. You realise they aren't really different to others - maybe a bit snotty but nothing different.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Or you could tighten your game to the point where you are not intimidated by hot, young female bodies.

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree with the OP. Generally, checking women out hurts your chances.*

*Unless you are a very good looking guy.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Girls have faces?!

 

[SgtSplacker]

If you check a woman out then look away it will hurt your chances because you're doing it by yourself and she doesn't know what you're thinking. But if you open on her and share the "check out" moment with her it's a good thing because you are letting her know you appreciate her appearance without having to say it. And it's way less creepy because once again you are doing it together.

I love opening a girl with a promiscuous checkout like that, then with a big smile and introduction. Because without saying a thing or expressing my interests I can see if she is receptive to me. If she gives me a screw face. I'll just let her know I was just saying hi and move onto the next piece of ass.

Remember guys: Women only think you're creepy if they don't like you. It has little bearing in your actual persona.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

I agree with you OP to an extent.

If I am at the club sometimes I tell the chick I am talking to , to do a little spin for me and they always do and I always check them out. For some reason they seem to love that.

However, I always build a little bit of rapport before I do that just to confirm they are interested in me. But for the most part when I approach I am pretty direct with my eye contact and walk confidently up to them, that most likely yields the best success.

Ya or you can listen to skinnyguy's advice and approach with your eyes closed and not look at them at all... That sounds like it cannot fail lol....

 

[El Payaso]

After being with a number of girls, I just kinda look at all girls like "meh...whatever. I've seen hotter." It kind of changes your mentality.

 

[Syrio]

Girls have faces?!

lol

 

[zekko]

If you check a woman out then look away it will hurt your chances because you're doing it by yourself and she doesn't know what you're thinking. But if you open on her and share the "check out" moment with her it's a good thing because you are letting her know you appreciate her appearance without having to say it.

One of the things I like to do is "accidently" get caught checking out a girl's behind. When she turns toward me, I let my eyes linger a moment longer then look up and smile at her. She will almost always smile back. However, I'm not doing this in an attempt to pick her up, I just do it because it amuses me lol.

But like In2TheGame says, it probably depends a little on the setting.

 

[Sofomore]

What? Checking her out in a non-creepy way will NOT hurt your chances. Oogling over her body is obviously lame. But being unapologetic with your desires is attractive.

I agree with your idea to not check her out before the approach. You can use your peripheral vision to see if she has a nice rack and a$$. After you're talking to her, go ahead and look at whatever you want.

If anything it shows your intent and gets to the point, you want to FVCK her. If I'm talking to a hottie I will occasionally look at her body, maybe spin her around and look at that a$$.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Guys you're missing my main point here. The idea of whether or not it makes you look creepy is secondary to my main reason i'm suggesting this: Because personally, for me, it IS intimidating to talk to these girls if i know they're packing a killer body, so by avoiding talking to them, it's a mental trick to keep them off the pedestal and relax.

sylvestor the cat, i'm sorry we can't all be on your level. I'm offering constructive advice to others who are having trouble with the same things i am. I never said i was an expert. that's why i need tricks like this. Maybe someday we'll all be as cool as you.

 

[ududud]

Someone just stole a corn flake from me. I need my cornflake now.

 

[JohnChops]

ahahahahhah yeah might as well just avoid women all together.

aka be gay.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Guys you're missing my main point here. The idea of whether or not it makes you look creepy is secondary to my main reason i'm suggesting this: Because personally, for me, it IS intimidating to talk to these girls if i know they're packing a killer body, so by avoiding talking to them, it's a mental trick to keep them off the pedestal and relax.

sylvestor the cat, i'm sorry we can't all be on your level. I'm offering constructive advice to others who are having trouble with the same things i am. I never said i was an expert. that's why i need tricks like this. Maybe someday we'll all be as cool as you.

what? and tightening your game to the point of not being intimidated is not constructive advice?

yes - you can all be on my level. that kind of negative thinking is only going to hold you back just as avoiding things you are scared of will only hold you back.

 

[old_skoolr]

*looking at a girls a.ss*

Girl: Are you looking at my a.ss?
Me: Hey, you cant spell class without a.ss