"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't limit yourself to your "type"

stuka1939

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What do I mean by type?

We ALL have a type of woman (physically) that we tend to favor and are attracted to the most.

e.g. I tend to be most attracted to petite (5'4" and under) brunettes. By petite I mean short, she does not have to be skinny, but not fat. I actually don't mind a girl with a few extra pounds as long as she has a cute face.

You might prefer tall blondes, while Joe Schmo likes average height girls with light brown hair.

My point is, I realized I AM seriously limiting my dating pool by just paying attention to petite brunettes. There could be a 5'7" blonde who could be a perfect match.

BE OPEN MINDED, and don't just stick to "your type".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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