bearfan34201
Don Juan
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- Jul 27, 2006
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So this HB8.5 I was seeing a little bit.. Things hit sour. In the least amount I can right to give you the story, Here I go. We talked a decent amount on the phone and text whatever. I had intrest in her so I might have talked to her more than I did with the other girls. But so she asked me to our school dance, Sign that she had a thing going for me. She said she was enjoying getting to know me. People at her work said all she did was talk about me, Text the owner of my gym asking if I was working. She would say things on how she was nervous to ask me out or hang out.
Dance sucked, She was crabby all night and was very quiet and we didnt dance much. Whatever; Afterwards the night went sour and I drove her home. later get story that her Dad was upset with her and that when things don't go her ways she gets pissed and ruins her night(from her sister).
I stopped talking to her and she constantly bombards my buddy in her class asking questions like " Is bearfan pissed at me? Why doesnt bearfan talk to much anymore. Did Bearfan drink after the dance? Where did you guys go?"
**** like that. I told her yesterday that I had to talk to her soon and she said ok. She again asked my friend in class "What the hell was that? What does he want to talk to me about. I don't want a boyfriend". Etc.
Now I'm confused on where to go with this. My buddy asked her if it's a problem of her liking me she said it wasnt that.. It was the fact that we only hung out once. Which is true and it makes it difficult I guess because the attraction is already there.
People think it's just poor communication on both of our parts, and that she wants me to ask her to hang sometime, and I'm just not asking her becuase I don't know her intrest level. It's confusing and too be honest I've never been on a Hot-Cold type of situation before lol.
Do I think she's playing games? Yeah I did. My buddy also did until she asked him all those questions. What you guys think I should do? I'm not too used too being under the spotlight here but I want to get this figured out cause it's bothering the hell out of me. lol
Dance sucked, She was crabby all night and was very quiet and we didnt dance much. Whatever; Afterwards the night went sour and I drove her home. later get story that her Dad was upset with her and that when things don't go her ways she gets pissed and ruins her night(from her sister).
I stopped talking to her and she constantly bombards my buddy in her class asking questions like " Is bearfan pissed at me? Why doesnt bearfan talk to much anymore. Did Bearfan drink after the dance? Where did you guys go?"
**** like that. I told her yesterday that I had to talk to her soon and she said ok. She again asked my friend in class "What the hell was that? What does he want to talk to me about. I don't want a boyfriend". Etc.
Now I'm confused on where to go with this. My buddy asked her if it's a problem of her liking me she said it wasnt that.. It was the fact that we only hung out once. Which is true and it makes it difficult I guess because the attraction is already there.
People think it's just poor communication on both of our parts, and that she wants me to ask her to hang sometime, and I'm just not asking her becuase I don't know her intrest level. It's confusing and too be honest I've never been on a Hot-Cold type of situation before lol.
Do I think she's playing games? Yeah I did. My buddy also did until she asked him all those questions. What you guys think I should do? I'm not too used too being under the spotlight here but I want to get this figured out cause it's bothering the hell out of me. lol