"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't let this crap go to your head

IamMyownMan

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Ok, so you read some article after being dumped. Then another, another and another. Or maybe you got shot down. Or maybe you've never been laid.

You know the best thing you can do, what it all boils down to, follow your wildest ****ing dreams. Just go out there and do it. I say this having followed wild ass dreams and then plugging back in with a b.s. job that is unfulfilling although fairly well paying.

Follow your passion and dreams. Become the man of your dreams and women will follow like lemmings.

Turn off the P.C. and go out and do something you've always wanted to but never have...could be a run, approaching a chick, skydiving, robbing a bank, if you are old and/or white taking dance lessons to improve your rhythm and loosen up that spinal cord, hunting, mountain biking...

Just go out and get your blood pumping, feel the natural chemicals course through your veins and realize you only get one shot at life, so don't hesitate to go after what you want.

Hesitation and other people's expectations will put you into the normal 9-5 grind. You have this day at hand-make the most of it-it might be your last.

Don't sell yourself short.

Oh yea and 'good' girls are a myth as beautiful as unicorns or Santa Claus. The only woman who will ever love you unconditionally is your mother...

I can tell you from career experience, you never know what someone is capable of until it is too late. Cheating, robbing, lying, stealing, fornicating, adulterating, denying, misplacing blame, rationalizing-are all part of human nature-male and female. That is not to be negative or pessimistic, but to paint the picture that is necessary to be true to yourself-you are likely the only one who ever will.

So go live the life of your dreams. It will be over too soon.

SAY R.I.P. to your A.F.C.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you want to waste a ****load of time and energy pissing up a rope and jumping through all kinds of hoops just for a stinkbox, well it’s your life. But life is too short to put too much importance on female acceptance.

The only thing that wasting all your time and money pursuing women will teach you is that women are not all that special and, in the final analysis, the more fulfilling moments in your life there was no chick around to speak of.

Some day I think you’ll understand this, eventually…
 

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Preaching to the choir broham...but thanks for coming out.

Life is short. Enjoy it.
 
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