"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't let this crap go to your head

IamMyownMan

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Ok, so you read some article after being dumped. Then another, another and another. Or maybe you got shot down. Or maybe you've never been laid.

You know the best thing you can do, what it all boils down to, follow your wildest ****ing dreams. Just go out there and do it. I say this having followed wild ass dreams and then plugging back in with a b.s. job that is unfulfilling although fairly well paying.

Follow your passion and dreams. Become the man of your dreams and women will follow like lemmings.

Turn off the P.C. and go out and do something you've always wanted to but never have...could be a run, approaching a chick, skydiving, robbing a bank, if you are old and/or white taking dance lessons to improve your rhythm and loosen up that spinal cord, hunting, mountain biking...

Just go out and get your blood pumping, feel the natural chemicals course through your veins and realize you only get one shot at life, so don't hesitate to go after what you want.

Hesitation and other people's expectations will put you into the normal 9-5 grind. You have this day at hand-make the most of it-it might be your last.

Don't sell yourself short.

Oh yea and 'good' girls are a myth as beautiful as unicorns or Santa Claus. The only woman who will ever love you unconditionally is your mother...

I can tell you from career experience, you never know what someone is capable of until it is too late. Cheating, robbing, lying, stealing, fornicating, adulterating, denying, misplacing blame, rationalizing-are all part of human nature-male and female. That is not to be negative or pessimistic, but to paint the picture that is necessary to be true to yourself-you are likely the only one who ever will.

So go live the life of your dreams. It will be over too soon.

SAY R.I.P. to your A.F.C.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you want to waste a ****load of time and energy pissing up a rope and jumping through all kinds of hoops just for a stinkbox, well it’s your life. But life is too short to put too much importance on female acceptance.

The only thing that wasting all your time and money pursuing women will teach you is that women are not all that special and, in the final analysis, the more fulfilling moments in your life there was no chick around to speak of.

Some day I think you’ll understand this, eventually…
 

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Preaching to the choir broham...but thanks for coming out.

Life is short. Enjoy it.
 
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