"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's a twice-yearly gathering of people who legally own machine guns, flamethrowers and light artillery in Westpoint, Kentucy.
Anyone can go to watch, and even fire some of the weapons, if the people on the firing line are renting them out.
I've wanted to go to this since I read about it ten years ago (I'm sort of an armchair gun and military history enthusiast, but live in an anti-second amendment state). I mentioned this event on SoSuave about *three* years ago, in a reply to a different thread.
I'm finally going there this October (have plane tickets, nice car and beautiful hotel room in Louisville reserved).
Now... here's my point: I've known about it for ten years, seriously thought about going for the last three or four years, and then finally made up my mind to finally just go, in late January (the April 'shoot was cancelled due to flooding).
What changed? The desire to go finally overrode any concerns about time management, and money.
In fact, when I mentioned the 'shoot in that long-ago post, I was probably in a better position financially to go!
But I realized that we mostly regret what we didn't do, rather than what we did (unless it's something truly evil!).
Although I enjoy running my business and the income it affords, without a goalpost in the distance to strive toward, it's still a real drudgery.
The frame through which I see the work/life/money balance has definitely changed - making a living is still important, but I am also driven now to bring new places and experiences into my life... or else... what's the point?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good points, LPD. The subject of regretting the things we don't do comes up fairly often on the forum, but it's good to hear of a real-life example of someone actually following through. This can help us all to get ideas on how we can reach beyond the comfort zone.

As an aside, you might get more readers/responses by splitting your paragraphs like this. I never read posts with run-on paragraphs, but for some reason I read yours. I figure that's why there are no responses yet.

Good post. Thanks for giving a real-world example, and enjoy your shoot.
 

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Oklahoma an anti-second ammendment state? Are we in bizarro world? Here in Michigan, we're moderate. We have our liberal areas and our conservative areas but we still all own a gun. You'd think Oklahoma, being less populous and part of that frontier mentality that still exists (Texas, anyone?) would be quite pro-gun.
 

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theunflushables said:
Oklahoma an anti-second ammendment state? Are we in bizarro world? Here in Michigan, we're moderate. We have our liberal areas and our conservative areas but we still all own a gun. You'd think Oklahoma, being less populous and part of that frontier mentality that still exists (Texas, anyone?) would be quite pro-gun.

LOL... I don't really live in Muskogee, OK, I live somewhere else entirely. In fact, there is a video circulating around from an Oklahoma shoot similar to Knob Creek in which a four or five year old girl attending the event is sitting at some sort of tripod-mounted machine gun, just firing away under the supervision of her father.

Most people that I tell about this event I'm attending are plainly shocked that machine gun ownership is legal and widespread enough that a confab of that size would happen twice a year.
 

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Sun Tzu said:
Good points, LPD. The subject of regretting the things we don't do comes up fairly often on the forum, but it's good to hear of a real-life example of someone actually following through. This can help us all to get ideas on how we can reach beyond the comfort zone.

As an aside, you might get more readers/responses by splitting your paragraphs like this. I never read posts with run-on paragraphs, but for some reason I read yours. I figure that's why there are no responses yet.

Good post. Thanks for giving a real-world example, and enjoy your shoot.
Glad you liked the post... the odd thing is, I usually write postings in block paragraph format.

Is there a formatting command I'm missing out on?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sun Tzu said:
Good post. Thanks for giving a real-world example, and enjoy your shoot.
WOW... all I can say is WOW... I'm so glad I booked the trip, and spent the time and money going there. It was one of the rare times something exceeded my expectations - from the flight out, to the city of Louisville, to the hotel and of course, the Machinegun Shoot itself.

It altered my perspective substantially... it was truly a "peak experience" one which I want to duplicate as often as possible.
 

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glad to hear you had fun here in louisville... we have lots of gun shows.
 

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I've had this same dillemma. I've been wanting to take a long trip to S. America, backpacking around the continent. But I admit, fear has kind of kept me from pulling the trigger on that one. Fear of all the banditry I hear down there, not speaking the language well, getting yellow fever or malaria or something.
 
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But I admit, fear has kind of kept me from pulling the trigger on that one. Fear of all the banditry I hear down there, not speaking the language well, getting yellow fever or malaria or something.

South America isn't the ideal place to go backpacking. You could easily get your ass kidnapped.
 
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