Dont let her do stuff. Show control.LTR

[MightyMate]

Because there is not much stuff about art of LTR on the forum im trying to keep updating with tips from me. Mainly its way harder to stay in LTR than to get laid by many chicks.
Lately i was posting about:

Getting back after beeing dumped LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91460

Ignore a little. LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90367

LTR fights
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91861

Today new lesson.
Show her that You are in control and You can not allow her to do some stuff.
She tells You she wants to go with girls for the party - say NO. It may start a fight, then You say - i feel bad when You are not here. She has no answer.

She wants some movie from videoteque. You are there together choosing, she says that she wants some lame mobvie. You just take movie that You want and borrow it.

She wants to drink on a party. You simply say no. You dont want her to be drunk.

She wants You to wear some clothes because You are meeting domeboy important for her. You wear only half of it. Like trousers that she choose, but different top.

Girl wanna stay at party. You say - lets go. Shes not coming. You say, You got 3 minutes. And keep staring at her.


There are millions of situations like that. If You act proper they gonna make girl very interested in You and letYou keep control. Thats very important in LTRS.

 

[Bloke]

You forgot one

" Don't let her talk when she is dumping you over the phone "

 

[MightyMate]

Yeah some crazy girls love to dump and get bakc hour later. But it wasnt topic about them

 

[Monkey]

This thread is


MightyMate - theres a HUGE difference between 'control' and 'controlling someone'

Any self respecting girl would dump your ass if you tried any of that controlling crap on her.

 

[Bourne]

Yeah, this advice sucks.

 

[MightyMate]

Ive been all my life with HB9 who used to say nobody can control em. And You know what? They love man who got balls to tract them like that.

 

[belividere]

This is great advice...


...if you want to date low quality women with no self-esteem.

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by belividere
This is great advice...


...if you want to date low quality women with no self-esteem.

exactly... even if you do attempt to control her, im pretty sure down the line she'll end up resenting you or dumping your ass.

All relationships need to have at least some type of freedom and individual space while at the same time respecting one self and each other.

 

[MightyMate]

Guys have You ever been with at least HB8?? You are speaking like total retards.
People who never been in LTR with at least HB8 are asked not to rate this advice. All others - im waiting for feedback. Thanx.

 

[Monkey]

Originally posted by MightyMate
Guys have You ever been with at least HB8?? You are speaking like total retards.
People who never been in LTR with at least HB8 are asked not to rate this advice. All others - im waiting for feedback. Thanx.

I'd actually question whether you've ever even had a girlfriend

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

What's the interest in controling a woman anyway? Isn't this just for a big ego trip or even worse an ego boost to compensate for low self confidence? Isn't it enough for a DJ to be in control of himself?

 

[MightyMate]

Real DJ can control eithe himsel or woman.
If You dont realize that, You will still keep going way in wrong way.
If You dont find the tip usefull or talk bollox liek i read here.. Well do what You want to. But im sue none of ya is in LTR with hot girl atm.

 

[The Juan and only]

That's a crock of ****.

I'll agree that in certain situations it is necessary to demonstrate some control. However, randomly making pointless (perhaps unreasonable) demands whenever you feel like an ego boost is ridiculus. It's not good for you or the relationship...period.

 

[Monkey]

Originally posted by MightyMate
Real DJ can control eithe himsel or woman.
If You dont realize that, You will still keep going way in wrong way.
If You dont find the tip usefull or talk bollox liek i read here.. Well do what You want to. But im sue none of ya is in LTR with hot girl atm.

Again self control is good, controlling is bad, you'll understand this when you actually get a woman (of any worth).

 

[MightyMate]

Monkey - With money looks and this faggy behaviour You wont get girl for sure.
You can either do plastic surgery or listen to my tips. Until then You will be jerking off all the year just like the 31st started for You.

 

[Monkey]

Originally posted by MightyMate
Monkey - With money looks and this faggy behaviour You wont get girl for sure.
You can either do plastic surgery or listen to my tips. Until then You will be jerking off all the year just like the 31st started for You.

LOL try again

 

[MightyMate]

What did You edti?

 

[BobFuest]

I think both are right. Every once in awhile this is good. Not all the time or for an ego boost.

 

[Qmanchoo]

I've never had a fight with my current girl. We talk things through but she's also not overly emotional and knows I don't accept cray ass behavior. Keeps you happier with life and happier as a man. I don't back down, and I stand my ground, but I'm always reasonable and logical. Never start petty fights and argumetns without expecting the same in return.

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Wow, this is the biggest load of 'ish I have EVER seen... Are you trying to run her away from you?