"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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About 3 years ago I was spending a lot of time with this hb, I was attracted to her and was hoping for something to come of it. Anyway she LJBF'd me

I was in denial for a while but eventually just stopped taking her calls and moved on. A few moths ago I bumped into her and we started talking again. She has a

boyfriend but she claims to not be happy in the relationship. So last night we bumped int each other at the club and she stayed glued to my side for most of

the night. She was a little drunk and out of nowhere grabbed me and gave me a kiss and told me she loved me. I don't really think it was sincere so I just kind of

brushed it off. I'm dating a few girls myself so I'm not even really thinking about this girl or trying to persue her anymore but I'm wondering why she did this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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muffin said:
About 3 years ago I was spending a lot of time with this hb, I was attracted to her and was hoping for something to come of it. Anyway she LJBF'd me

I was in denial for a while but eventually just stopped taking her calls and moved on. A few moths ago I bumped into her and we started talking again. She has a

boyfriend but she claims to not be happy in the relationship. So last night we bumped int each other at the club and she stayed glued to my side for most of

the night. She was a little drunk and out of nowhere grabbed me and gave me a kiss and told me she loved me. I don't really think it was sincere so I just kind of

brushed it off. I'm dating a few girls myself so I'm not even really thinking about this girl or trying to persue her anymore but I'm wondering why she did this.
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My guess would be that she did it because she was drunk, she did want you in a level and alcohol magnified that or at least put down the s!ut shields.

Anyway, keep those plates spining :up:
 
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muffin said:
About 3 years ago I was spending a lot of time with this hb, I was attracted to her and was hoping for something to come of it. Anyway she LJBF'd me

I was in denial for a while but eventually just stopped taking her calls and moved on. A few moths ago I bumped into her and we started talking again. She has a

boyfriend but she claims to not be happy in the relationship. So last night we bumped int each other at the club and she stayed glued to my side for most of

the night. She was a little drunk and out of nowhere grabbed me and gave me a kiss and told me she loved me. I don't really think it was sincere so I just kind of

brushed it off. I'm dating a few girls myself so I'm not even really thinking about this girl or trying to persue her anymore but I'm wondering why she did this.
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Because she wanted your attention.
 
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