"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't Know What to Do

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gotigers

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Hi, this is my first time posting, but I have been reading these forums for a little while now. I don't know what to do in this situation and I want to know what you guys think.

I am a freshman at a large university in the midwest. Last weekend I met a girl at a party and we exchanged numbers. I left with some friends and we texted back once or twice that night. She seemed to really attracted to me,or she was just desperate, but she invited me to her house. By the time she invited me I was already way too far away to turn back. That was the end of it for that night.

Now, a week later, she texted me. We somehow got to the topic of football and she said she knew nothing about it. I said I did and I offered to teach her. She replied with something along the lines of " Good. Intense study session. You set the date, babe" I replied with a day and time and she agreed to meet me in my room.

It is clear that she wants to sleep with me. The issues I have are that:

1) She has a boyfriend (only mentioned once, and before she agreed to meet me). Do I want to break that up?

2) The boyfriend is a member of the football team and is huge. i'm not small myself but, he is 6'5 300lbs or so. He could kill me

3) I am still a virgin and she seems like she MIGHT be kinda slutty/skanky. Do I want to lose it to somebody like that? She is kinda hot though

What do you guys think? Should I go for it and get a quick lay? Or should I next her? I do have other plates but none are this close to sex.

Sorry if this is kinda long.
Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Yo man, im not the most experienced guy...but i'll offer my two cents....

gotigers said:
Hi, this is my first time posting, but I have been reading these forums for a little while now. I don't know what to do in this situation and I want to know what you guys think.

I am a freshman at a large university in the midwest. Last weekend I met a girl at a party and we exchanged numbers. I left with some friends and we texted back once or twice that night. She seemed to really attracted to me,or she was just desperate, but she invited me to her house. By the time she invited me I was already way too far away to turn back. That was the end of it for that night.
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Damn man...she obviously wanted to get her ***** smashed...HARD!

Now, a week later, she texted me. We somehow got to the topic of football and she said she knew nothing about it. I said I did and I offered to teach her. She replied with something along the lines of " Good. Intense study session. You set the date, babe" I replied with a day and time and she agreed to meet me in my room.
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Uh oh chief...watch out...looks like she's the DonJuanita of this game ;-)

It is clear that she wants to sleep with me. The issues I have are that:

1) She has a boyfriend (only mentioned once, and before she agreed to meet me). Do I want to break that up?

2) The boyfriend is a member of the football team and is huge. i'm not small myself but, he is 6'5 300lbs or so. He could kill me

3) I am still a virgin and she seems like she MIGHT be kinda slutty/skanky. Do I want to lose it to somebody like that? She is kinda hot though

What do you guys think? Should I go for it and get a quick lay? Or should I next her? I do have other plates but none are this close to sex.

Sorry if this is kinda long.
Thanks
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But that aside....

for the boyfriend issue, i don't think she has any morals against it. He prolly doesn't satisfy her the way she wants or wants nothing to do with him for a while. She's agreeing to it, she should just being having the guilty conscience, not you. For #2, she's prolly cheated on him before countless times...i don't think she'll let him know. Even if he's big, she prolly doesn't like having sex with him. For #3, most girls lie about the amount of guys they sleep with. If u want to have sex with her, despite however slutty she seems to be, just go for it. Don't do what society wants u to do, have sex with her cuz u want to. Plus the fact that ur a virgin, she'll want to take it ;-). Do what ur body tells u ;-)
 
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