"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't Know What to Do

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Hi, this is my first time posting, but I have been reading these forums for a little while now. I don't know what to do in this situation and I want to know what you guys think.

I am a freshman at a large university in the midwest. Last weekend I met a girl at a party and we exchanged numbers. I left with some friends and we texted back once or twice that night. She seemed to really attracted to me,or she was just desperate, but she invited me to her house. By the time she invited me I was already way too far away to turn back. That was the end of it for that night.

Now, a week later, she texted me. We somehow got to the topic of football and she said she knew nothing about it. I said I did and I offered to teach her. She replied with something along the lines of " Good. Intense study session. You set the date, babe" I replied with a day and time and she agreed to meet me in my room.

It is clear that she wants to sleep with me. The issues I have are that:

1) She has a boyfriend (only mentioned once, and before she agreed to meet me). Do I want to break that up?

2) The boyfriend is a member of the football team and is huge. i'm not small myself but, he is 6'5 300lbs or so. He could kill me

3) I am still a virgin and she seems like she MIGHT be kinda slutty/skanky. Do I want to lose it to somebody like that? She is kinda hot though

What do you guys think? Should I go for it and get a quick lay? Or should I next her? I do have other plates but none are this close to sex.

Sorry if this is kinda long.
Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Yo man, im not the most experienced guy...but i'll offer my two cents....

gotigers said:
Hi, this is my first time posting, but I have been reading these forums for a little while now. I don't know what to do in this situation and I want to know what you guys think.

I am a freshman at a large university in the midwest. Last weekend I met a girl at a party and we exchanged numbers. I left with some friends and we texted back once or twice that night. She seemed to really attracted to me,or she was just desperate, but she invited me to her house. By the time she invited me I was already way too far away to turn back. That was the end of it for that night.
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Damn man...she obviously wanted to get her ***** smashed...HARD!

Now, a week later, she texted me. We somehow got to the topic of football and she said she knew nothing about it. I said I did and I offered to teach her. She replied with something along the lines of " Good. Intense study session. You set the date, babe" I replied with a day and time and she agreed to meet me in my room.
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Uh oh chief...watch out...looks like she's the DonJuanita of this game ;-)

It is clear that she wants to sleep with me. The issues I have are that:

1) She has a boyfriend (only mentioned once, and before she agreed to meet me). Do I want to break that up?

2) The boyfriend is a member of the football team and is huge. i'm not small myself but, he is 6'5 300lbs or so. He could kill me

3) I am still a virgin and she seems like she MIGHT be kinda slutty/skanky. Do I want to lose it to somebody like that? She is kinda hot though

What do you guys think? Should I go for it and get a quick lay? Or should I next her? I do have other plates but none are this close to sex.

Sorry if this is kinda long.
Thanks
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But that aside....

for the boyfriend issue, i don't think she has any morals against it. He prolly doesn't satisfy her the way she wants or wants nothing to do with him for a while. She's agreeing to it, she should just being having the guilty conscience, not you. For #2, she's prolly cheated on him before countless times...i don't think she'll let him know. Even if he's big, she prolly doesn't like having sex with him. For #3, most girls lie about the amount of guys they sleep with. If u want to have sex with her, despite however slutty she seems to be, just go for it. Don't do what society wants u to do, have sex with her cuz u want to. Plus the fact that ur a virgin, she'll want to take it ;-). Do what ur body tells u ;-)
 
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