"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't Know If this girl is messing with me or not

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Everyday I go into the building she says how nice my hair looks or how nice my shirt looks, she's asked me if I was gay because I was really paying attention to her, and sometimes when i'm leaving to go home in my car I catch her staring at me and than today when she was walking by she touched my shoulder and my face. But what I don't get was today when I was walking into the building her friend said he's wearing the yellow shirt she said I don't think I want to say his shirt is nice he thinks i'm flirting with him. So if she doesn't want me to think she's flirting with me, why does she do this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's showing indications of interest. Stop worrying if people think you're gay, when she tells you that you look good, agree with her, try some C&F. If she ask you if you're gay, that's usually a good thing. But you better up the ante if you're interested in her.
 
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All women mess with our heads. It's their nature to do so.

She doesn't want you to think she is flirting with you, because she is and she knows it (she says it so to her friend).

However she'll want to deny it since your feedback/response isn't so inviting.

Respond to her flirtations positively, and she escalate hers. That's if you choose.
 
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