"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't Know If this girl is messing with me or not

Kuwi

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Everyday I go into the building she says how nice my hair looks or how nice my shirt looks, she's asked me if I was gay because I was really paying attention to her, and sometimes when i'm leaving to go home in my car I catch her staring at me and than today when she was walking by she touched my shoulder and my face. But what I don't get was today when I was walking into the building her friend said he's wearing the yellow shirt she said I don't think I want to say his shirt is nice he thinks i'm flirting with him. So if she doesn't want me to think she's flirting with me, why does she do this?
 

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Kuroro

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She's showing indications of interest. Stop worrying if people think you're gay, when she tells you that you look good, agree with her, try some C&F. If she ask you if you're gay, that's usually a good thing. But you better up the ante if you're interested in her.
 

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All women mess with our heads. It's their nature to do so.

She doesn't want you to think she is flirting with you, because she is and she knows it (she says it so to her friend).

However she'll want to deny it since your feedback/response isn't so inviting.

Respond to her flirtations positively, and she escalate hers. That's if you choose.
 
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